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Dating: Help and advice

My girlfriend was beaten and raped 8 months ago. Now can can't bear me to come near her...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I have been dating my curent girlfriend for just over 2 years. 8 months ago she was beaten and raped. I have stood by her and tried to help any way I could. I love this girl and can honestly see her as the one. But after 8 months she still isn't ...

Why did she jump and tell me to stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - Hey guys, Well I'm not that experienced in this so I came to this site to see if I could get some help. I have just started going down on my girlfriend and as I was doing it at one point she kind of got jumpy and told me to stop. She described it ...

Tips on how to end my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. It's the usual story, relationship started off wonderful and then gradually it's began to become unbearable. I have had a long think about what to do and have decided it's time to end it. My ...

Unusual bleeding...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Wow, I'm pretty glad I found this site. This is really embarrassing, sorry but I'm not sure what to do. I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for about a month now; we always use condoms and I am also on the pill. But for the past few days my ...

He sneaks downstairs to watch porn when he thinks I'm asleep!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I am having several problems with my fiance. Distance lying and now porn. When we first got together we would watch it every now and then as a couple and we have done that for almost 4 years. Well in the last 2 weeks since I have discovered all the ...

Could someone help me interpret a recurring dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I'm really curious about a recurring dream that I have and I was wondering if there is anyone on this site who knows how to analyze dreams? It involves me and a friend from college (whom I'll call Fulano) This is a strange dream, I know. I k...

A friend confessed that he has feelings for me, and I'm not sure what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - My friend told me that he liked me more than just a friend and I didn't quite know what to say. I do like him back but i dont know if i want to take it anywhere becasue im scared. Ive never kissed a guy and hes going to want to do that but i know ...

Am I being silly to want my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - i've recently met up with one of my best friends after not seeing him for 5 years, i had such an amazing time with him and it felt really natural to spend time with him and his family. he lived on the otherside of the country and has gone bac...

All my friends have boyfriends and there is no one for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - i broke up with my ex around 3 months ago, he hurt me severely and left me messed up emotionally for a long time. Then i found someone ( his friend) who i genuinely had strong feelings for. We had a thing,he acted as though he really liked me, then ...

My partner wants us to have sex with other people.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - My partner wants us to have sex with other people. I like the idea for myself, but my skin crawls at the thought of him doing it. It scares me he won't come back and I would not be able to contain my jealosy. I know this is selfish, but has anyo...

How can get over my ex girfriend after she dumped me for some other boy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - i am 16 my gf is 14 and it al kicked of on wednesday afternoon me and my gf were sat in my room kissin and stuff and she got my name wrong i was hurt and upset and after a while of her talkin she told me she liked this outher boy who she had been...

I havent had my period for about 6 weeks

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I havent had my period for about 6 weeks and im a virgin and never been with a boy more than a pull whats wrong with me ? (im only 15) and had my periods for about 18months...

How do I deal with a girl who was hurt by several ex boyfriends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - How do i deal with a girl who was hurt by several ex boyfriends. I really like her but part of the reason she just wants to be friends even tho she likes me more, is because she is afraid ill do the same thing in time. How can i prove to her that i ...

I really like him and think about him everyday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - well i really like this boy but he is older then me some people may say to old and others say its fine. he has a girl friend and i am friends with her but have known him longer even though she is my friend i get on better with him an i really like...

I look at and scrutinize everything she has done from then to now

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I have a live in girlfriend that I have been with for over a year now and I love her with all that I have. My problem is that 2 months into our relationship we were out having drinks and she drank too much and does not remember the events of that...

In 6 months I have only been with him alone once

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for six months and we are seemingly the 'perfect couple'. We both come from good backgrounds(private schools etc) and our parents have doing alot to keep us from being alone. In 6 months i have only been with him alon...

Why does he get mad at me for saying think other guys are cute?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Ok, so I asked my boyfriend if he thinks any girls are hot or cute and he said one is cute. He asked the same to Me for guys and I said yes but he get's all mad about the fact that I think someone else is attractive, also. As opposed to when I just ...

How do you become a 'posh totty"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Ive al ways wanted to have a love life like a posh totty... weird i know. Does anyone have any idea how to become one?...

I told her that he was cheating on her with me! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Did i do the right thing in telling her? I found out my 'boyfriend' has been seeing someone else. I obviously never want to see him again! He kept me a secret from everyone important in his life and he didn't with this other girl. So i guess I...

He wants time and space but I'm scared he'll forget about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Before anything, i would like to clarify that i am 20 y/o. I broke up with my bf 1 month ago and it was tough at first- fighting, crying and swearing (typical breakup). He says he still has feelings for me and we broke up just because of some ...

I can't decide.. I really need opinions! please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Right I have a boyfriend who really likes me, and i don;t really know why i said yes to seeing him, i don't think I've ever had strong feelings for him, but we've been with each other for 3 months, we don't live near each other and maybe see each ...

Is my manager interested in me?

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22 March 2009 (F) - I recently started a new job and I had my first one-on-one with my manager this week. We go over my numbers, performance, etc. During the one-on-one he was really nervous. His leg was shaking, he kept calling himself an idiot, and he wouldn't really ...

I still cant forgot him

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22 March 2009 (F) - i met someone while i was with someone.he use to phone me telling me how much he wanted to be with me. i gave up in the end it was the way he talks,hes charm, he casted a spell on me. i was trying so hard to prevent it from happening i even bloc...

To all the parents - how would you react if your daughter was dating a much older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I really like this one guy and I honestly think he likes me back but we're both very shy so nobody has made a move. The problem is the age difference is quite high (34 years - yes, I know, but we get along so well). The age difference honestly ...

BF never wants to go to the bars with me, but goes with his girl friends...Isn't this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend said we needed to spend "less time together" because we were hanging out 24/7 and arguing alot more than usual. We've been together for about 2 1/2 years. I didn't like that but agreed. I have trust issues and he knows that. Well...

Is it possible I am pregnant? HELP

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - im on the contriceptive pill and im 16 but on friday two days ago i had unprotected sex, and i have not been taking my pill since wednesday because im due to come on my period and suppose to be taking it again on thursday, but i still haven't come ...

I just wanted to know whether gals look for a manly guy for marriage

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - hi. i'm 22 yrs old. with just 52 kilograms weight which means i look lean. i just wanted to know whether gals look for a manly guy for marriage point of view? in other ways, i'm a fun loving, jovial character...

How long do I wait to hear from him???

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22 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i broke up a few weeks ago and continued seeing ecah other. Last week we started arguing i was getting really angry with him and started sending him nasty texts he responded to them all. i truely believe he he still likes me as his ...

Is it best to be single? Am I missing out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I came across a thought..do you think its best to be single? most ppl i talk to say relationships are really stressful and hard work anyways..even my mum! am I missing out on much?are couples really so happy as I think? i get lonely as i can no...

What's going on with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I was seeing this guy for a while now, we have gone away to the most beautiful places and met up every week and each time just experienced the most amazing sexual experience each time, every time. One day he said he didn't want to have a weekly ...

I've been confused with his behavior

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - How can I forget about a man who has cheated on me twice been physically abusive.. I've been with him for 4yrs and I know he love's me we've had a rocky relationship cuz I've been confused with his behavior. I'm a single 33yr old mother with 2 b...

I'm worried that I had sex too early

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I had sex with my bf for the first time last week and I'm worried that it happened too early. It was my first time but not his. It was left totally up to me by him, I was not at all pressured into it and I really wanted it to be him, but I get the ...

Period after morning after pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Last week my bf and I had unprotected sex (it was the first time), he pulled out before he came, but I was still worried that there could be a chance that I could be pregnant. I had only just come off my period 2 days before then. I went to a clin...

Is there anything I can do to stop getting so worked up about these things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Hello. I'll get straight to the point, my problem is jealousy. I've always been jealous of peoples relationships, I hate people I love getting close to others. At the moment I really like my female friend, and I know she likes me because she'...

Should I mention to him how much I like him, or wait for him to make any advances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

I feel like I'm the ultimate "generic" girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I'm feeling sad because I'm starting to wonder if the reason I've had nothing but back luck (with guys) in my 29 years is because there is something wrong with me. Other girls have boyfriends who love them, and I wish and wish I could know what ...

Stay in the relationship and try to love him again? Or get out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years now and we've had some bad moments mostly because of his jealousy but we managed to overcome them. I was usually the one who made more compromise and i sometimes got frustrated because of this but I ...

We want slightly different things from life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice on my current situation. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. However, we've recently realised that we want slightly different things from life. Neither of us wants kids or marriage b...

Has he got some sort of double personality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Dear Friends, I am really interested in hearing your opinion in relation to this; I have been with my ex boyfriend for almost 3 years. He always looked serious and he wanted me to dress concentionally ( classic outfits) and he was always critical ...

How easily can women change their attitude towards you so drastically after you have popped the big question?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - Hello. Here's a little question for you. Is it possible that an experienced woman in her early thirties might develop a crush on a guy, but realise that this is a crush and therefore try and focus her energies elsewhere so as to forge a relationship ...

My friends and boyfriend don't care

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - i went out to a town centre that i havent been to before with my friends and my boyfriend and they abandoned me. i sat down and got out my phone and when i looked up again they were gone. i walked around for an hour no clue were i was going and i ra...

Do I have a chance with her ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - I really like this girl..i know falling for her, i think of her all the time and i truely care about her and wanna be with her.. but you see the only problem is that she is still inlove with her ex, who has been a complete jerk to her and they had ...

Anyone knows the dating age difference in France?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - what are the dateing age diffrences in france? i might be headed there this summer. i thought maybe you could tell me just how big the age diffrences are between men and women there? ...

I'm 14 and pregnant and really scared.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Im 14 years old and I did a really stupid idea with my boyfriend that's 16. We had sex in his truck 1 time... 2-3 weeks ago and it was an accident. I found out 3 days ago that I'm pregnant. I don't believe in abortions because its just plain murd...

Any awesome ideas by my honey's birthday?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I want to make the perfect strip teasing-make you sweat-burn some calories (ha ha) CD. I like things with a good beat and for this genre a seductive lyrical, Some genres i like are: Hip hop, techno, rave, industrial, grunge, rock, etc. Some band...

I have no idea how to make her have a orgasm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - Okay well today me and my girlfriend had sex for the second time and third time and I cumed pretty fast the first time so we went again but I have no idea how to make her have a orgasm I want to so bad I just don't know and we tried different posi...

He isn't on the same page as you, what do you do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - i've been with this guy for 2 1/2 years, married for almost 1 and I thought he was for me. english is his second language, and even though i speak his language too I feel like I can't communicate with him at all. i like to use big vocabulary and ...

He doesn't want a relationship with me but...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for over a year on and off. What I like about him the best that he is very reliable when he says he calls he does, when he says he comes he is on time. Someone that I can count on. Girls, this is rare as you know! He is ...

We both want a baby..but we know we're young!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I'm 14, and My boyfriend(16) and I are sure that We want a future together....but the only thing is, We are in a long-distance Relationship. We talk about this all the time and I'm having such a hard time deciding what to do. My Boyfriend is most ...

I love him, but he lies.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - hi i have asked a question already and it was anwsered thank you. but i need more help. the answer said to keep calling him out about his lies and i try and he is still in denil. how long should i go on with this? should i watch his every more to ...

We never talk about us...so I don't know what we have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 months,we meet up once a week for a dinner,cinema and then we end at his place. I got hurt by someone before him and now Iam afraid to get hurt again.He seems to be a nice guy and we have lots of passion. He does...

Can I go out with others? He had the chance to ask me out and hasn't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I dated someone last year for about 6 months and it was very serious. We broke up over the summer but have been talking again since September, making our "relationship" about a year long in total. We haven't been with anyone sexually since we first ...

He really liked me, I forced myself to ignore him and now he ignores me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - This guy liked me in fresman year. He told my friends to talk me into it. My bestfriend convinced me on going out with him but after 8th grade, I decided not to fool around anymore. I decided to go out out with the guy i like to avoid trouble and so ...

Gone without goodbye..what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - I met him on valentine's day... It was like a movie-scene.. After a late night at work on valentine's day.. I decided to take a taxi home, because public transportation has already stopped operating. But I found out that I didn't have enough of c...

I like him, he likes me but we both worry about what others will think

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Can somebody help me? One of my guy friends just told me he liked me this thursday, and i asked him why he didn't tell me he liked me before, because he said he's had a crush on me for around two months now. He said that he wouldn't treat me the ...

My boyfriend emotionally distances himself from me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - My bf emotionally distances himself from me. He takes a situation and makes if into something major and then hides for days or weeks. I think he does this to prevent himself from getting too close. Yes I know he loves me but I know he is fearful. ...

When I'm single I'm unhappy and can't accept my situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

22 March 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm 20 and I'm single. I've been told hundreds of times by people, my age and my parents age that I shouldn't worry about the fact that I'm single, because someday I'll find somebody right for me. However, I feel like I obsess about being single ...

We're only 14 & everyone says its just infatuation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

22 March 2009 (F) - Hello to everyone who stumbles upon this question and for those who take the time to read and answer this, thank you. I am currently 14 years old, living in the UK. I've been going out with this boy who is the same age as me and we've been tog...