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Archived questions from: 14 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What kind of moves do guys use if they want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - This guy invited me to his house the next time I'll be home (which will be around Easter). He hasn't said what we'd be doing; he just said perhaps the next time I'm home we can just meet at his house. I'm hoping we watch a movie or have dinner or ...

Torn between my current boyfriend and ex-boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Im so confused at the minute. I was with my ex for 5 months and since then Ive been with my current boyfriend for 16 months. I love him very very much but every day now I find myself thinking about my ex more and more. I would ne...

Dating for 8 years, now he's moving away for work - am I overreacting to his comments?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Boyfriend is moving 4 hrs away for a new job. He has been unemployed since Oct 08. He would like something closer but it's just not happening. We have been dating for 8 yrs. Relationship has not been perfect at all. Alot of work on my part. But i ...

Is it ok to see another guy before getting back with ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (M) - I dated this guy for 5 years all throughout college, and I never really got to experience single life. There were no real problems in our relationship until a few months ago, when I found out that he was flirting and talking to another girl. Af...

I love my friend more than my own girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (M) - Right i have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years now and recently i have been hanging out with a friend who is a girl and i don't know who want to be with anymore. i think i love my friend more than my own girlfriend. me and my friend have ...

Did I miss the boat with a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - I fell in love at 16 and got engaged at 18 my boyfriend went to service. I met a boy at work who I heard was crazy about me. He wanted to ask me out. I happened to know that he was seeing a girl already steady on and off. I finally went for a...

Guy at work staring at me, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Hi Hoping that someone might be able to give me some insight. I started a new job a few weeks ago and since working there I have tried to knuckle down and do a good job so haven't taken much notice of other people and more or less just spe...

Just wandering.. are guys & girls really that different?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Hi Cupids! Started seeing a guy about a month ago and we have had several lovely dates and get on really well. He phoned me last 2 nights ago and said he wanted to see me - I am meeting him tomorrow again. Just wandering.. are guys and girls...

Follow up: I am dating my older married boss

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

14 March 2009 (?) - Well, alot of you had ALOT of negitive feed back with my first question, but I was willing to give it another try. for those of you who didnt read my first question, I have been involved with my older married boss for 7 months now. He just lef...

Breaking up because I'd like to join the national guard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - i graduate in 3 months and i've decided to go the army national guard. my boyfriend of two years doesn't think it's a good idea but i really want to go. we had a huge fight and we broke up. recently i met someone and i think i fell in love all over ...

I really like a girl that is in a long distance relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

14 March 2009 (M) - I really like a girl that is in a long distance relationship. We are both in high school so she hardly ever sees the guy. I feel that there is a mutual interest but I do not know how to approach the situation because she seems happy with him. But,...

Girlfriend and I becoming distant and now we're going on spring break

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

14 March 2009 (M) - My girl friend and I have been on rough terms lately. We got in a fight b/c of something she did then I needed time to think and didn't talk to her for a while. She said she was drowning that week and she blames me for it b/c she thought of me as ...

Getting Over Your Girlfriend's Sexual History: How I Did It

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

14 March 2009 (M) - All right, damn it. I've dealt with this stuff in the past and finally got over it. Took me a long, long, long time, but in the end, I did it. However, in my quest for answers, examining my inner thoughts and societal views, talking to both male ...

He still hasn't given me an orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month and he still hasn't given me an orgasm. After a couple of weeks I brought it up and he got kind of offended. He then talked about how he didn't want our relationship to be about sex. I told him 'no ...

Will he think I'm cheap for sleeping with him? Was that all he wanted?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - hey people i split up with my boyfriend of one year 3 weeks ago on my terms as we argued all of the time and he wasnt very nice to me. Im quite happy about it. 2 weeks ago, i went out and met a ver attractive boy. We kissed and he asked for ...

Who has it worse: the one being cheated on, or the one doing the cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Do you think that if you are the cheater and are full of remorse and regret for what you have done and love and adore your spouse dearly, could it possibly feel worse than being the one who has been cheated on? Before you ask, we were going through ...

Is it possible for my vagina to become tight again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4244 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Hiya. I'm a virgin and wondering... If i was to have sex now once evry month.. then did not have sex or anything for 5years in a row. would my vagina become "tight" or still stay loose. thanks...

I got back together with my ex, only to find out he cheated on me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Soo. My boyfriend and I dated for 10Months. We were usually a really happy couple everyone always said how cute we were. We would call eachother in the morning and hang out till late at night, everyday. whenever we got in a fight and i would thin...

Is this the right way to do it for the first time? Does he make sense?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Hiya, im 18year's old and i met this guy through the net he's 28. he's always been straight with me from the start.we're different religons and will nt be able to get married hesn ever lead me on. now before you think fo me in a bad light i want...

What sorts of things should I look for to figure out if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Right ok imagine theres a lad/guy that really liked you at once point however because you as a prson were quite shy and didn't put it out there that you liked him back he never did anything about it. Also that when comfronted by people in the class ...

I'm still in love with my ex. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - my EX asked if I have a Boyfriend and I said no cos I don't and I don't want one right now cos am still inlove with my EX but he doesn't know.. haha.anways when I told him no I don't have a BF.. he siad I was lying cos how can a good looking ...

What was her purpose in telling me about her plans to move out, what is it that she wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

14 March 2009 (M) - I have this situation where I started to see someone who was married. She and I got along great and she kept telling me she was getting a divorce. She told me that she was in love with me after a couple of months, but the separation never came. ...

My son's father is completely heartless. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Sometimes we live our lives base in ilusion, expecting thing or people to get better, but at the end nothing changes.....The sad story is that i fall in love with the wrong person, a man who has done evrything in his hand to make me believe i am ...

He's younger and I worry this is an issue for him - do I ask him out anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (M) - I recently met someone on a course during the course we seemed to just click. I felt really attracted to this guy but at the time he had just started dating someone, so thought ah well he's taken so kind of backed off. 2 weeks later though they ...

How can we tell my parents we want to live together when they don't like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Well am only 17 years old this year am going to be 18. I'm the only girl my parents have out of 5 kids so they take care of me alot. But I've been dating this guy for about 1 and half year. My parents don't really like him so at first we both ...

Am I wrong to desire what he feels about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - I asked this guy last night,via email about his feelings for me. We've been going on dates for months,and even slept over at his place last weekend. He's not the typical asshole kind of guy.Hes very sweet and anybody would assume by his actions that ...

What do you think would've happened if I'd gone through with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - I just got into a relationship with this guy named Josh. He's so sweet, and I really like him. We'd just gotten together on March 10th. (just a few days ago) Tonight I went over to his house for the first time. We played with his dog for a while...

He wants to come back. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Hi, it's me the wife with the cheating husband 2nd time. We still communicate and he has aksed me if he could come back home, but I, I want to but I'm scared. This really hurts and I'm too young to go through this. But I also stressed to him before ...

We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...

Still in love with my man but can't get some other guys out of my head.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Hello I Have Been With My Boyfriend For 6 years now, we have been through a lot, at one point I sent him to jail for one month with a two year probation... I deeply and truly love him to death I never thought of any other guy besides him never even ...

Will this relationship devastate my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - I probably know the answer to this already but wanted to get various viewpoints (male, female, young, old) and see what you all had to say. I graduated from college three years ago. I was friends with one of my professors while I was still a stud...