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Dating: Help and advice

Senior? Sophmore relationship?

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13 March 2009 (M) - I really like this girl at my school, but im worried about the age difference. I am a senior in high school and she is a sophomore. We have been talking when we get a chance in between classes and have been getting along really well besides some ...

She says I'm not important to talk to?

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13 March 2009 (M) - Is it bad if the girl i love says that im not that im not that important to talk to? Were good friends but im not sure what this means. I've fell in love with her but does this also me she only considers me as a friend? ...

What does she want from me if anything?

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13 March 2009 (F) - hi everyone. My problem isn't really a big deal but its been bugging me so I thought I'd ask some advice/opinions.I have just started at a new job a few weeks ago and have made some good friends. We had to do a collaborative project last week and I ...

Its a big step going from his, mine to "ours"

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13 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently decided to move in together when my current lease is up in June. It seemed like the natural thing to do, and I was even the one who suggested it, but now that it's 'offical' I find myself getting rather nervous. I've ...

I need a REAL man's advice for my guy's 25th birthday

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - Hey all you red blooded males out there, i'm wondering if what i'm going to do for my partner's 25th birthday is going to be enough. i'm a bit tight for cash but i really want to do something that will make him really happy. he said no ones rea...

How do I tell him how much I love him?How much I would do for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just started dating recently, and he is the most perfect boyfriend I've ever had (he's my first actually) I love him so much, that I would literally do anything for him. He's so sweet, caring, shy (you have no idea how cute ...

How to tell if a guy is gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - I'm a guy. And there is this guy that gives me some signals. I would like to know if he is in to me. If he is gay or smthing. Well, he hugs me and when i am trying to sleep he comes near me and tells me to kiss his cheek for goodnight. but t...

I'm not experienced..what should I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5737 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice regarding a fella I have liked for a while. We work together and we started to flirt about three years ago but we never really spoke until about two years ago, we arranged to go out once but he blew me out without an excus...

I texted my boss after work to tell him I really like him

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13 March 2009 (F) - I texted my boss after work to tell him I really like him and was attracted to him, now he has arranged a disciplinary with me for texting him - I feel embarrassed and betrayed - what do you guys think out there???...

I really Like him what should I Do?!

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13 March 2009 (F) - Hello, I really like this person named Jonathan we both know each other from a hall we both go to, He knows I fancy him because I used to make it obvious. We started talking On FaceBook (which I added him) and we both make each other laugh an...

She in my head and I want to chill and maybe look else where'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5736 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - I'm 22 and in my first year at University studying Fine Art. My best friend is a girl called 'Sally'. We hit it off from the start of term (September 2008). She is in a relationship with this guy who lives somewhere else in England. She i...

I want to get out of rut and start dating again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - Hi! So my first boyfriend (V) and I "dated" for a year and two months but never got past a kiss that we shared at the end of freshman year of high school. I really don't think I loved him, but I certainly did like him a lot; it took a good few ...

I don't know if I should take him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - God, what do I do? Me and my ex boyfriend...God, we're so in love, I mean totally. The thought of him just makes me go all weak inside. We split up 6 months ago and we still feel the same about each other. We split up because he wasn't spending ...

I'm looking for information on alternate, non-hormonal methods of birth control. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - My partner and I would like to experience increased intimacy during sex by replacing condoms with another birth control method. We are monogamous and disease free. For health reasons, I do not want to use anything hormonal. Would a contraceptive ...

Should I be worried that we have problem with our sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together now for about three months, and we've been together for about nine months. Since we've moved in together we have only been having sex about once or twice a week and pretty much every time it has been ...

Is she just flirting or trying to make me jealous?

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13 March 2009 (F) - ok, so i like this woman (for a few years) who is quite a serious person, she knows that i like her and she told me she has feelings for me too. we are not together bcos she has a bf. not long ago she told me about this other man she's been fli...

My first love has said "I love You" to someone else before me and I don't feel special to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months now, I'm 19 and he is 21. he is my first love and i really care about him, he says he loves me and i trust him and i hope we will be together for a long time. however there is one issue ...

I want more than one boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - how can a girl who has never had boyfriend get a few boyfriends? I would like some advice from the males. like flirting,clothes,makeup,how to talk to guys etc...

I cant be anything more than friends with the girl of my dreams!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - About 2 years ago I met a girl with more confidence, charisma, personality and sense than any girl ive ever known. On top of that shes stunningly good looking. She became a really close friend of mine for about a year. The closest friend I think iv ...

How do I leave my girlfriend to get back with my ex?

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13 March 2009 (M) - i have a thing going on with this girl, problem is that I'm still in love with my ex and now she has said that she also still loves me i want to go back to her, but my problem is the other girl what do i do?...

My ex bf wants to be friends with me

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13 March 2009 (F) - My ex bf wants to be friends with me. I dont know if its a good idea or not. I broke up with him because he was abusive. I still care for him alot, infact I still love him, but I dont know if I can be frineds with him. I dont feel I can trust him,...

Why does my ex want to be my friend?

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13 March 2009 (M) - I can't grasp the rationale behind why my ex would want to be my friend? And I've heard the stories about the using and the control and the not wanting me to be with other people, but seriously, and I'm asking women this more than men I think, what ...

What does it mean find love when you least expect it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - what does it mean find love when you least expect it? how does that work? but there are guys who have loads girlfriends who don't have to find love when least expect it like wise for some girls,i don,t understand, do guys only fancy tall good...

Shall I admit my feelings for him and hope something sparks or completely wash him out of my hair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - I actually have no idea what to do.. I fancy this boy who i think, loves his ex?! im in a bit of a mess. Theres this guy called craig who recently broke up with one of my friends, well she dumped him. I fancied him before he went out with my mate...

Will they get a Fairytale ending?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - My fiance and I just broke up after a 2 year relationship. The cause of the break-up is the obvious-THE EX with kids. I find this is a rebound on the basis that they were together for 20 yrs when they split. Their relationship was very rocky, had a ...

Question for the guys: how can I help my boyfriend 's erectile problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - For the last 12m, my bf of 8 yrs (who I live with) has had problems maintaining an erection. We had some financial problems, and I found out he'd been flirting with a woman from work, posting himself on 'adult dating' websites and send...

I don't want my boyfriend to get bored of me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - I really don't want my boyfriend to get bored of me. We've been seeing each other for a few months, and we have sex on a regular basis, but I refuse to give or receive oral sex. I don't know why, but it really is a big turn off for me, and ther...

He's always texting..

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13 March 2009 (F) - Well hello ppl..Dunno really how to express myself..Will bring u out the clear pic..I'm in relationship but not very happy these days.. I no i love him a lot and can't imagine life without him...When we meet up and are together then things are fine...

Cool or more forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - theres this guy who i like and i know he likes me to a point but because weve been to the cinema and he mentioned going out again a few nights ago. But we never see each other in real life because we never bump into each other or have mutal fr...

How can I make it so he won't dump me after a month?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - How can u make our relationship last long. I really want this to work, between me and my boyfriend in the year above... But how do I make him like, NOT dump me after a month?! His last relationship was eight months, mine, 2 months... I dumped m...

He won't ask me to be his girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - So, I have been going out with a guy for about 5 months. We have gone out before, but our relationship has never been as good as it is now. However, he will not ask me to be his girlfriend. I asked him why and he said he does not want his family to ...

6 month anniversary important?

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13 March 2009 (M) - Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weve been goin out for five months now, and in two more weeks, itll be six. Is a half year anniversary significant? If so, wud it be even better if i got her a gift? I rly do love her, and can see my self being with her a ...

Any advice for peaking a girl's interest when I randomly approach them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 4 years. She broke up with me and I'm trying to move on because she already has. Since more guys approach girls she beat me to the punch. Any advice or tips to meeting new girls. I have a co-worker I am interested ...

How do I make it clear that I would like a date without scaring him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - ok, i basically want to know how to ask out this guy i know who has social anxiety disorder. we met about 3 weeks ago and i knew instantly that i liked him, so i chatted to him online and stuff. he asked me to the cinema, but just as friends, and ...

She thinks I'm trying to change her, but I'm just concerned for her, and now she's broken up with me! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - hi im 15 and goin through a hard time. okay heres how it all went down. my girlfriend who is 15 but older than me still told me she smokes i was shocked cause she said she hates people who smoke which doesnt make any cents. anyway i asked her why ...

What do these signals mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - Theres a guy I've known for a while now. We never really talk. I've always kinda thought he was an a**hole. Well he is in 2 of my classes. We had to be partners in biology one time. He didn't really talk to me that much he just talked to his ...

Does the fact that I love giving oral sex make me look bad?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - i love performing oral sex on men. it makes me extra hot and ready. does this run guys off? like do they look to me as a whore for doing it? ...

Sex or sweetness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - I am in love with two amazing girls and I cna t figure out which one to pick and I am hurting all of them including myself. Girl A I dated for 8 years and everything was amazing except the sex. She is caring, loving, and would do anything for me a...

B/f went on spring break without me!

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13 March 2009 (?) - ok so i need some advice....my bf and i was to go out of town for spring break however at the last minute i wasn't able to go so i told him that. i would assume he wouldnt want to go because i wasnt and would want to spend time with me, but no he ...

Should we just be 'best friends'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

13 March 2009 (F) - You know those stories about how a guy and girl know each other for a really long time and they're best friends and they fall in love and get together? Yeah, that happened to me. And then you know about those same stories but they end in actually ...

Is she just sick or could she be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

13 March 2009 (M) - This is just an update about the whole pregnancy question of mines I guess that was like 3 weeks ago. I don't know how to update my posts so I'm writing this as a new one. My girlfriend started puking the night after the day we made love and i...

How can I ignore these feelings towards my friend and continue with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

13 March 2009 (?) - So, I have a boyfriend named *Joe and he is absoutley perfect. We've been going out for a long time and he's a dream come true. He does everything for me and treats me like a princess. I'm truly in love with him and I can see myself spending the ...