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Archived questions from: 21 March, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I've called the wedding off because of his ex! Help me, I'm going insane!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I'll start by telling you that I was meant to marry him on Thursday! All this happened the day before. We're both students and he lives in university halls. We have known each other for 3 nearly four years and been dating for 2 years. Now so...

I'm being manipulated by a guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - i think im being emotionally manipulated by a guy hes being nice one week and treats me like dirt the next last night he completely walked past me (last week he said i was the best girl in the world) this has been going on for a year+Im at brea...

Why is it always at work? Does he just want a quickie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I need some advice. I am 26 female (virgin), I work with a bunch of Army guys, I have never really bothered with any of them until a couple of years ago, when this corporal started, we started talking and flirted all the time, we arranged to go out ...

Are there any other techniques that I should be aware of that could maximize mine and his orgasms when the time comes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - My best friend of thirteen years and I got together five years ago on March 23rd and we've just grown so much stronger and closer since. We're both from Christian families and don't believe in pre-marital sex. Well, we're getting married next ...

Why do I always feel empty without a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4646 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Hey all. Since the age of 15 I've always always had a boyfriend. I've only ever split up with one if there's another one that I like waiting, as I feel panicky when I'm single. Sometimes I get hurt, but as I'm fairly nice looking (I know how that ...

My boyfriend is such a drama queen.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is such a drama queen. He blows minor things into major problems and then starts a cat and mouse game where he runs and hides. He is 51 years old. His behaviour is so childish. We do love each other but I am not sure I can continue ...

Am I mentally psycho???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I'm 22 and I sometimes have Panic attacks, it started off last November when I found out that my boyfriend has expressed his feeling to one of his co-workers. We are still together, when I ask him why he did something like that he told me that he ...

What can I do to get on the better side of her parents so that I can date her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - I thought nothing could go wrong, she was really all over me, she liked me as much as I liked her, then when I go to ask her out, I get told indirectly as soon as I walk in the door that she doesn't think it will work out because of the age gap and ...

We used to be so happy together. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years and a month. He left his wife about 3 years ago and moved back home. We got together after that and he is going through the divorce. She lives in another state. I'm confused on why he won't ask ...

My sister has told me to get rid of my boyfriend and called him a scumbag!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Here goes, I'm 22 years old and have been in an on off relationship for a year and half. My boyfriend is ten years older and has a child, none of this bothers me but I have not yet told my parents about him because they come from a well to do ...

Is the guy I'm dating gay? How can I tell? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Ok, so I've been on 3 dates with this guy I met on an internet dating site. On paper he seems like just the right kind of guy for me.. tall, successful, educated, looking for a relationship, etc.. but when we met, I seriously questioned his ...

My imagination is going wild thinking about things he's doing behind my back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. We're both currently studying and taking the same course. Just last month, I found out he was cheating on me. I found his messages to the girl on his phone. When I confronted him, he admitted ...

Guys especially - how do I tell my ex's housemate how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Right, basically I've just finished a 5-month open relationship with a lovely, understanding guy. He told me he loves me but he can tell I am obsessed with his housemate and he can't handle it. Being the angel that he is, he is telling me to go for ...

I don't want to lose a good friend just because my girlfriend tells me to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I have a situation that is becoming problematic. See, I have this friend, we'll call her Sophie. Anyway, Sophie is a good friend, we get on very well, she is funny and interesting and intelligent, and she really doesn't like my girlfriend, Laura. ...

Should I forget ever had a sister to stop the conflict?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - A while ago i had posted that my sis phoned me in tears to tell me that her so called 'man' said he wouldnt mind a threesome with me and her. Some guys came back and said it aint a big deal, the thing is its put a strain on my relationship my boyfr...

2 Problems! Girlfriend stopped wanting sex and also started smoking behind my back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - This is going to be kind of long but I am a 19 year old guy and my girlfriend (18 going on 19) of 2 years and I are going on a break and i have 2 big problems. Before i tell you what recently happend I'm going to tell you our relationship before ...

What advice can I give him, and how can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago. After we broke up my ex slept with a few girls, as an attempt to get over me. He admitted to me that it didnt work, and he still loves me. Last night I found out he got one of the one-night-stand girls pr...

Is he interested or something? And what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Hi, there's a friend I met in college. We have to work on a group assignment since the start of the year. Sorry it's gonna be a little long. At the beginning, whenever we had meetings in a group, he would look at me very often, especially when ...

I defended her, now she dumps me. WTH?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - Ok so me and my girlfriend an som other friends were hanging out. and my girlfriend was messing around playin with one of my other friends, and somthing hapened im not sure what but he ended up hiting her hard. i got up and hit him so hard tha my h...

I just wish I could tell myself it was a mistake, learn from it, never do it again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I seriously need help, I need real advice. Well, I've been with My boyfriend for almost 5 months and right when We first started going out there was a guy I used to hang out with and he liked me. So of course he wanted to kiss me and he pretty much...

I want to take charge of the conversation somehow,but I don't know how

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I've been going out (aka - Not yet in a relationship), with this guy for a couple of months. He's really sweet and seems like good boyfriend material but he seems so boring! At first I was overjoyed with how much of a gentleman he is, and didn't mind...

How do I know if I am bisexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5715 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Can anyone who is bisexual tell me how they first realized they were bi? I definitely know that I am attracted to guys and I have had a bf. I have always assumed I am straight but my really good guy friend thinks that I am bi because we alwa...

Why do they always come running back crying to get a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Maybe someone can help me understand this. why is it that when men want to end a relationship they act like jerk/assholes to make you leave them. and when you do and have moved on without them, they always come running back crying to get a second...

Should I stay with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - well its about my girlfriend, she has a hard time expressing her feelings, we talk but have a different sense of humor, i cant ask a serious question without getting a “your mom” joke, and i dont really understand her cause her mom doesnt let us ...

Boyfriend's newest job is moonlighting at a night club

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Is it ok for my boyfriend to work at a night club? I have told him it bothers me because I don't trust the situations that could easily happen in that environment. Also, we now get very little quality time together because he is so either working or ...

How doI make an inexperienced girl comfortable on a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - I'm interested in a girl whom I don't think has ever had a boyfriend. I acted on what appeared to be mutual interest but then I ran smack into an icy cold front. Very confusing but I now realize that she is interested but simply never knew and ...

Signs of a shy guy liking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - There is this guy in my school that I really like. When I walk past his locker if he is with friends they will hit him or something then he will quickly glance at me and turn away. We have one class together and he sits in front of me. He will sit ...

I feel guilty that she broke up with him, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Well, here's the thing, umm a few months ago there was a new kid, so I totaly fell for him. Well my best friend got with him, I didn't mind at all, I was beginning to see him as a friend more and more, well today she walks up to me and says that she ...

Do I trust him???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months but we moved in with each other shortly after we started dating. I sometimes think that wasn't the best decision because he hadn't ever lived on his own before and i had for almost 7 years. ...

I feel I've got over her really quickly, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

21 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 almost and my ex and I broke up like a week ago or so and she has hurt me a lot by cheating on me with her ex that cheated on her. She got drunk and didn't tell me and she smoked for over 3 years now and she just told me a couple weeks ...

He always likes the lights off when we make love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known each other since second grade but every time we have sex he turns out the lights, he says it's for a dramatic effect! What should I do?...