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30-35,
*ikestence
writes:Okay well today me and my girlfriend had sex for the second time and third time and I cumed pretty fast the first time so we went again but I have no idea how to make her have a orgasm I want to so bad I just don't know and we tried different positions and stuff but nothing works she thinks it's just her but if someone could help it would beGreat thanks!
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reader, Legioness  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 Heyy :) well most women can't achieve orgasm with just penetration alone, so try this position.. Lay on your back, have her lay on top of you, then you have deeper penetration, and you can have easy access to nibble on her neck and ears which are for most people, major hot spots! Also you're free to play with her breasts, and most importantly her clitoris! Give it a whirl and see how it goes ;) x Becky x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): no problem - sex is a great thing, it takes time and effort to learn, like any activity - and practice makes perfect.
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reader, Mikestence +, writes (22 March 2009):
Mikestence is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI already read that. And thanks for the help I'll try to use it the best I can!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): you are asking the wrong people - try asking her.... i would suggest lots of foreplay first and get her to tell you how to touch her and how to taste her. gently as she directs. then move to full protected sex afterwards.
maybe try sitting behind her and letting her guide your hands as if they were hers?
i would also read :
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html
its the best article on here and i know you arent virgins anymore - but its got a lot of really good tips...
star.x.
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reader, Pandaholic123 +, writes (22 March 2009):
 Hey there, I have the gift of having no orgasm as well when me and my boyfiend "do things" =( It's just me-- Just have her or yourself have more of clitoral stimulation or more foreplay- Find something that really gets her hot and play with her for a longer period of time- That seems to help me alot. During sex have her play with her clit or find another way to keep her 'up' while in the act. Sometimes being more gentle and taking more time helps- other times being quick and nimble helps as well... Hope that helps! =) Let me know if it does!
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