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writes:i am 16 my gf is 14 and it al kicked of on wednesday afternoon me and my gf were sat in my room kissin and stuff and she got my name wrong i was hurt and upset and after a while of her talkin she told me she liked this outher boy who she had been workin with in her lessons and that she was torn btween us and stuff.i was crushed but didnt brake up with her the next day just after my exams had finished she rang me and said it was over i was crushed i stoped eatin sleepin and havnt stoped cryin. on friday i was sat wiv my m8s when she came over and wispered in my ear that she had got with him and walked off leaving me even more crushed and now i am still sat at home cryin not eatin or sleepin i realy loved her she was my first proper love we never went all the way but i wanted to. my friends tryed to take me out and find a new girl but i just dont feel any confidnce or have faith in the fact i will find some one beter plz help me nd give me some advise !!!!!!!
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reader, now single +, writes (23 March 2009):
now single is verified as being by the original poster of the questionalso plz can some one give me addvise on how to find a new gf because i had to change severly for her and i dont think that any women will find me personly attractive for a start im not the best looker i read comics and play games i have a fair bit of mussle from te hours spent biking but i had to realy change for her and now i have changed bk to my normal self people just laff at me again and call me a freak plz help thx
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reader, now single +, writes (23 March 2009):
now single is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthx for the help it was all grate advise i realy apprichate it but can i get some on the worsin sitioution cause it got worse at school today as she had a go at me for startin rumers and givin out her mob num stuff and how our relanship wasnt worth been in and how i am so pathetic that i wll never get anouther gf cause i am such a sado i meen my friends defendid me then but she gave me an ear bassin on the phone i realy cant stand her she seems to think i have some master plan to win her bk but i now i couldnt go bk with her cause i realy would be pathetic then but can u just give me some over all advise because the last stuff realy chered me up thx alot
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reader, Jason means Healer +, writes (23 March 2009):
Well, the first love takes the longest to get over given the length and depth of your relationship.But, as you get older you learn to live one day at a time with relationships.All's you can do is enjoy every minute you are with that person but nobody really knows how long they're gonna be with anybody.Do good, and fight for the right thing, and we can only hope that cupid smiles down on us and we'll be spared the hurt of loss as we wander down life's beaten path.
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reader, ErinPatterson  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 Thats sounds horrible. I am sorry that happened. You are so young and am sure that you dont want to hear that.
If you are still in contact with her i would tell her its best you stay away from each other a bit. You guys are to young to be considering anything serious. There is a whole world out there other than girls. Take a break and heal.
your young..spend time with your friends and on your school work..and try to have a few healthy laughs and forget about it. Sounds tough now but over time you will feel better.
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (22 March 2009):
What u need to do is get over that bitch! She obiously was over u when she got ur name wrong! ( sorry if that sounded harsh ) but is what needs to be said!!!!;) good luck
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reader, cls1990 +, writes (22 March 2009):
 first of all, if she was calling you other names in the bedroom you had a lucky escape
Second of all, how immature to come over & tell you she was with somebody else. She sounds like an attention seeker.
Thirdly, u can do so much better, i know it hurts now but it will get better & one day you will look back & wonder why you wasted so much time on her!
Chin up
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): how can you not find someone better than her?she left you for another guy,broke your heart and rubbed it to your face.she treated you terribly and doesn't even appear to be sorry and that's the girl you have lost your sleep over and can't stop crying for?she didn't even have the guts to break up with you in person,she did it over the phone!this girl clearly has zero feelings for you,on the contrary,she hurts you over and over and appears to enjoy it too.as much as it might hurt,you need to move on.you should start eating immediately because you're harming yourself by not eating or sleeping properly.slowly but surely,your heart will mend again,you just need to give yourself time and stay away from that bitch of an ex.
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