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A friend confessed that he has feelings for me, and I'm not sure what to do.

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Question - (22 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My friend told me that he liked me more than just a friend and I didn't quite know what to say. I do like him back but i dont know if i want to take it anywhere becasue im scared. Ive never kissed a guy and hes going to want to do that but i know that when he makes the move im going to push him away automatically :(. what should i do?

thanks for reading and please help me x

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A male reader, Jason means Healer United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2009):

Simple. Agree to go out with him and tell him the purpose of it is to see how you get along.

But tell him it's too soon for him to be making the moves on you so take a chill pill.

That way, you'll come across as cool, sophisticated and elegant and he'll want you twice as much.

Trust.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009):

Aww,hun,you know i was nearly 17 when i first kissed a guy,so i was around your age !.I'm 25 now.I remember how nervous i was.Do you know if he has kissed anyone before ?.Whether he has or not,dont be scared to let him know that this will be your first kiss.Either way,i'm sure he will be understanding.The best thing to do is relax and do what comes naturally.If he has kissed someone before,he may be able to help you out,and if he hasnt,well then you can both learn together !.

Believe me,once you've got the first kiss,or first few kisses over with,you will start to enjoy it and get more confident about it.Good luck,and please let us know how it goes ! : ).

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