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Why did she jump and tell me to stop?

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Question - (22 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys, Well I'm not that experienced in this so I came to this site to see if I could get some help. I have just started going down on my girlfriend and as I was doing it at one point she kind of got jumpy and told me to stop. She described it as a weird feeling but she liked it and I have no idea what it was or what happened. Can any of you guys help me out please any responses will be greatly appreciated. Thanks

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A male reader, Jason means Healer United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2009):

Sounds like you "rummaged" upon this young lady's clitoris.

The underside of the tip of the clitoris to be exact.

They're the same as us mate!

It's a hyper-erogenous zone!

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2009):

AskEve agony auntIt sounds to me as if she's had an orgasm and was maybe unsure what it was. After orgasm most women can be very sensitive and even be ticklish and any stimulation at all can be uncomfortable afterwards. Don't be put off by it though, at least now you know why she behaved the way she did.

~Eve~

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A female reader, PeanutButter United States +, writes (23 March 2009):

PeanutButter agony auntyeh, agree, she may just need anothe "go"...i never used to like it, i felt as though i was giving up control of something - it also used to hurt a little in a good way but in a way id still not want to continue a long while...someimes when a wman does orgasm she might not want to announce it to you, the jumpiness might have been the orgasm...she might them have wanted to move you away but couldnt tell you she came or other reasons....sometimes saying what you mean during sex isnt easy and you sometimes forget the other person cant always tell when you came....did you talk o her about it? I always say communication is key! Im comfortable with my husband going down on me now and tht took a while but im glad it did because its awesome ;) just relax and you'll get there :)

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