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Am I being silly to want my best friend?

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Question - (22 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 March 2009)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i've recently met up with one of my best friends after not seeing him for 5 years,

i had such an amazing time with him and it felt really natural to spend time with him and his family. he lived on the otherside of the country and has gone back now, but i'd love something to happen between us in a more romantic sense. am i being silly? it just feels right, i don't know how he feels but he said that after his exams he's going to drive down and we'll spend some time together..

what should i do? should i mention to him how much i like him, or wait for him to make any advances xx

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A male reader, Jason means Healer United Kingdom +, writes (23 March 2009):

Eh, NO! That is; don't mention HOW much you like him because you may need to back out and save face at some time in the future.

Instead, tell him that you have feelings for him but don't let him quiz you up about how much until he has reciprocated with something that'll give you hope first.

Whew! Sometimes you gotta pitch yourself like a salesperson!

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A female reader, bOy CrAzY;} United States +, writes (23 March 2009):

I think that u should go for it!! Tell him everything!! I had this same problem but ii never went for it and ii really regret it:( saddest time of my life! Messege me. If u need anymore advice;D

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