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*elplessgirl
writes:Ok, so I asked my boyfriend if he thinks any girls are hot or cute and he said one is cute. He asked the same to Me for guys and I said yes but he get's all mad about the fact that I think someone else is attractive, also. As opposed to when I just say ok knowing that he won't do anything with the girls He's attracted to. I just don't get why he get's mad at Me; is He too protective of afraid of losing Me? Reply to this Question
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reader, DannyD +, writes (22 March 2009):
 he is worried would you ever cheat on him.when you say that around him he gets insecure around other guys.Then he will get jealous and do the same to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): i think he's very insecure and he's the kind of guy that wants to have it all-i don't know him,of course,but guys like him are all over the place,trust me.just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you will no longer find certain people attractive.attraction is what led you two together to begin with;of course you'll stil find some guys attractive,it's not like you'll marry the guy for pete's sake!nevertheless,you chose to be with him and the fact that you're together means you're not interested in anyone else.try explaining that to him,but if he still doesn't get it,he has issues.aka,move along to the next one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): He's a little insecure, some guys are. Explain it to him and I'm sure he won't get upset.
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