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writes:well i really like this boy but he is older then me some people may say to old and others say its fine. he has a girl friend and i am friends with her but have known him longer even though she is my friend i get on better with him an i really like him i think that im falling for him. the girlfriend is not the problem it weather or not he likes me. we have talked about ages before an he has sed that a 16yr should not be with a 20yr old but it was not about me. he has sed that he does not see me as a child but not an adult he sed he dont no who he sees me in that sence. he gives me the look he looks into my eyes and smiles he is always making fun of me in a joky way we play fight alot he puts his head on my sholdier he touches me on the arm and stuff like that he smacks my bum with stuff when we are messin about he we are together everyday an have dinner an play games an on the internet together an we watch soaps together. when my friend came round he was talking to her and was asking bout me an he said that i was funny when you get to no me and she said that he was smiling when she was talking about me all my friends that have meet him said that he likes me from the way he acts but i still dont no an am not sure. how can i tell what should i do? i really like him and think about him evryday please help
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reader, Jason means Healer +, writes (23 March 2009):
Well, in the strange world of Karma, what goes around, comes around.How you can keep Karma happy is not to betray your friendship with his girlfriend by stealing her boyfriend, and that from your own friend.That doesn't mean you can't have him.It's as you said, it's how he feels about you.Just be there as a friend for him and let him make the first move.Then tell him you couldn't possibly do anything while he is still with your friend.Make it clear to him that he is not to split up from her because you have given him any assuruance that you will go out with him."Infact!" tell him. I wouldn't/couldn't go out with you straight away and even if you split from her, I would only CONSIDER going out with you after a break of em, so many weeks perhaps...In your wisdom, you may get to keep your friend and have him too.Sometimes it is possible to have your cake and eat it!
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reader, bOy CrAzY;}  +, writes (22 March 2009):
Is a very good posibility that he likes u;) but some boys are like that just want to flirt with a girl and stuff like that:( but ii say that he is like soooooo in love with u ;}.
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reader, cls1990 +, writes (22 March 2009):
 he has a girlfriend, he is off limits.
Before you do anything, put yourself in his girlfriends shoes, how would you feel if you knew your so-called friend was thinking like this?
He may like you, but have some respect for yourself and your friend. Tell him if he likes you to finish his relationship.
Please please dont do anythink with this man, it will end up ruining your relationship with him and your friend.
Good luck
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