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writes:Right I have a boyfriend who really likes me, and i don;t really know why i said yes to seeing him, i don't think I've ever had strong feelings for him, but we've been with each other for 3 months, we don't live near each other and maybe see each other on weekends. but recently I've been going out with him and his friends and have fallen for one of his best friends, who apparently used to fancy me, and was going to ask me out a while ago.I don't think i want to be with my boyfriend anymore as i don't have feelings for him and also i can't stop thinking about his friend. But I'm afraid i will seem a bitch if i finish my boyfriend because i can't stop thinking about his friend, and i don't even think anything will happen between me and his friend, as his friend will be doing right by my boyfriend! I'm confused, help!
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reader, DLover  +, writes (22 March 2009):
If I was your boyfriend's best friend, I would seriously think about it before going out with a girl that can dump her boyfriend for his best friend... it would make me think "oh well, she'll do the same to me some day or some other..." and would scare me off.
I am really sorry to say that, but it's true.
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 Okay this advice is only if you haven't had sex with your boyfriend: -
Dump your boyfriend coz you don't have any feelings for him. If his friend approaches you after, then go for it.
If you have had sex with your boyfriend. just dump him and forget about his friend. You don't want to sleep with friends.
K.
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