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writes:Did i do the right thing in telling her?I found out my 'boyfriend' has been seeing someone else. I obviously never want to see him again!He kept me a secret from everyone important in his life and he didn't with this other girl. So i guess I was the 'one on the side'. Which really hurts.I messaged the other girl, his 'proper' girlfriend what has been going on (we dont know each other btw). Because if I was her, I would want to know!Then he called me up quite angry. and said his girlfriend was not impressed with me contacting her.... i thought she would be grateful to know the truth!He sounded quite angry on the phone, im actually a bit scared of him now :(My intentions were not to cause trouble and I in NO way want him, he's horrible! i just thought she should know.Did i do the right thing in telling her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ravenxx91  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 you did the right thing, it will help both you and the other girl in the long run.
if he does get agressive or makes you scared i suggest calling the police to get a restrainging order.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): of course you did the right thing,honey!do not doubt that for one second!this guy obviously wanted to have the pie and eat it too but that's not the way things turned out so he's mad at you because you ruined his fun.guys like that aren't worth one second of your time sweetie of course you did the right thing!don't worry about him.as for his other girlfriend,what she does is entirely up to her.no matter what happens,i repeat you did the right thing,you can be sure about that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): you are obviously hurt, angry and feel betrayed. so what if he is angry? he cheated (on you/with you) and you were none the wiser. even if it was not your intention to hurt his gf / get even with him, she may still be hurt. but the person she must be angry with is HIM and not YOU.
leave her to deal with her cheating lying bf, luckily for you, you got away.
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 You did the right thing. I would want to know and she deserves to know too. It doesn't matter if he's mad or angry, that's his problem not yours. And don't be scared of him, he's just trying to intimidate you - he won't do anything. Guys who are petty always resort to intimidating girls when their game is called out.
You didn't cause any trouble, you simply helped another girl, she deserves to know. It's up to her to stay with him or leave.
Good luck, you deserve better and I hope you find better.
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