He really liked me, I forced myself to ignore him and now he ignores me!

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This guy liked me in fresman year. He told my friends to talk me into it. My bestfriend convinced me on going out with him but after 8th grade, I decided not to fool around anymore. I decided to go out out with the guy i like to avoid trouble and so I refused on going out with him. My bestfriend kept on insisting. She always told me that i will learn to like him and he is really cute. But I think he is not cute at all.Whenever I see him, I ignore him and when he tries to talk to me I avoid him. I even told my friend "Why should I say yes to him? I do not know him at all!" Even so, he always looked at me from afar for 2 years or so. Now, I am a junior and I started liking him by the end of sophomore year. It's probably because of the attention he gave me. Then my bestfriend talked to him and he told her how he thinks I am so cute. I know because she told me about it. So, I started saying hi to him. The first time I said hi to him, he hugged me and kissed me on the cheek. I did not know what to do because we did not know each other but he did that. After that, he would always hug me he would give me a kiss on the cheek or in my forehead. But, sometimes he ignores me. I could not handle the roller coaster feeling so i decided to ignore him completely. But, he approached me and said what is wrong? I did not know what to do so I pushed him away and said it was nothing. That was the last day before winter break. Then, when we got to school, he saw me and hugged me. He accidentaly hit my head with his shoulder and he started laughing so I got mad at him. I told myself I have to stop liking him but first, I have to confess because I do not want to regret anything. I told my friend to tell him because I did not have the courage to go up to him. When my friend told him, he said he did not know me at all. It hurt me a lot that I got sick for 3 days. I missed 3 days of school then when I went to school, he saw me sitting down by my locker and he said hi. My head was spinning so I just looked right through him and I could not say hi becaus I had a slow reaction. He just left thinking I ignored him. And now, he completely ignores me. I do not know what to do.Then his friend told him he was interested in me and he said yeah she is real cute. Well I told him to tell me that. But he told my other friend that he did not know me. Just the sight of him hurts me alot. Please tell me how to get over him copletely. That is the only thing I can do because he now has a girlfriend and they have been going out since the day I started to ignore him. Just the sight of him breaks my heart. Is that what love is? And, what should I do? My bestfriend said this is kind of a revenge. Is it really?

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