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writes: i went out to a town centre that i havent been to before with my friends and my boyfriend and they abandoned me.i sat down and got out my phone and when i looked up again they were gone. i walked around for an hour no clue were i was going and i ran into them. turns out they didnt rlly care wat happened to me and cudnt be bothered looking for me. apparently my boyfriend wanted to look for me but his best friend told him not to, if he cared about me he wudnt listen to her but he did. when i found them i got rlly angry and they all think im just bein stupid. what else am i gonna do?? it makes me feel like nobody cares about me not even the person im with. wat do i do forget about it or keep looking for an apology at least.
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reader, Legioness +, writes (22 March 2009):
That's really horrible of them :( I agree with what the others are saying, ditch them and get some decent friends who'll look out for you, not just forget about you. Hope you're ok :) x Becky x
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reader, ~AgonyAuntLaure~ +, writes (22 March 2009):
I have been in that situation before. But i was completely lost and did not find them again. If you really like your boyfriend then talk to him about how you felt and really make it known you didn't like it. And if you still dont get an apology lose him you can do better! His friend is probably jealous so you dont want a boyfriend who values his friends more than you!
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (22 March 2009):
Nice friends and a lovely boyfriend! I think it is time for you to ditch the "IN" crowd and find some genuine people who actually care about you.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (22 March 2009):
Dump your boyfriend and find some new friends to hang out with.
If he doesn't put you above what his friend's want then he doesn't care much about you.
As for your friends, just start hanging out with some other people.
It was cruel of them not to even send a text telling you where they were.
Good Luck!! xx
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