A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Why does he do that? I don't understand him?So there's this cute guy that I've liked for a while now.He has alot of girly friends and is very chatty with them but he tends to be very quiet with me.Whenever he's talking to them and he sees me he'd turn his full attention on me.He always tells me when he was in my area. Like when I'd see him he'd say with a smile I was in your area yesterday. With a smile on his face. He's done this many times now.I'm starting to feel abit upset cause I don't know why he'd be really chatty with the other girls but not so chatty with me:(Is like he's friends with them but I feel like me and him aren't friends:( I can't ask him out cause I'm shy and not so confident. His girl friends are thin whereas I've got a big chest and curves. I'm not thin and not fat either just not confident:(
View related questions:
shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, oldbag +, writes (23 May 2013):
 Hi
I agree with anonymous, this man has not asked you out for a date so he is not interested in dating you, simple.
As for saying he needs a massage that's a throw away statement, I say it if my back hurts or after I have been cycling any distance.
STOP over thinking every move or word this man makes and divert your attention to men who ARE interested because this one is not. Sorry.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2013): If he liked you he would ask you out,thats what guys do, but he has not asked you out, saying he was in your area is probably the only thing he can say to you to have a conversation,all you have in common.
Why waste your time on this man, lots of men prefer girls with a fuller figure so go look for one of them instead.
And find something or some way to build your confidence, you need to find some hobby your good at and love so you can shine. Go for a new hair do, change your wardrobe,anything to boost your confidence,make you feel good.
Good luck
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe randomly told me he needs a massage but I couldn't say anything. Why am I so shy with him:( grr I hate that!!
...............................
|
