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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey everyone. i'm right now in a disturbing relationship. my bf is older than me, he is very sweet, intelligent, and he loves me a lot. we have been together for one year. in beginning he was not too good but was not too bad either. he texted me, called me and spended time with me. in short he gave all his free time to me. Now things are not the same, he doesnt bother to make time for me. he rarely initiates contact, and if i text him, most of the time he doesn't even answer. i tried to talk to him lots of times, i told him that i wanted his time. I tried to make him realize that we are falling apart, but he doesnt pay attention. i asked him to leave me or make time for me but he says he can't leave me because he loves me. i can say it for sure that he is a very busy man, but how come he cant make 5 minutes for me? please help, what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni think the same, i think he wants to leave me but is afraid to do so, maybe its pity or something. but whenever i confront him, he starts to spend time with me for somedays. i dont feel secure in this relation at all
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2013): Dump him.
This is the male-chicken shit way of dumping you but not having the balls to actually articulate it.
You deserve better.
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