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female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:I have liked this guy for a few months now and don't know what to do. I hung around in a group two years ago and was friends with him but then we all went our separate ways. I am now in two of the same classes as him science and english. In science i got sat next to him by the teacher and we have got along fine, in english he sits at the other side of the class but he always comes over and sits with me. My best friend and a few close friends knew that i liked him and didn't say anything, but a bit ago i told this girl who i get on the bus with and she told his best mate which led him to tell my crush. In a way i was angry at her but also glad that he knew i liked him. one day i was walking home with my crush, his mate and a few other lads who were walking in front. I was in the middle of us three and happily talking to them until his mate randomly asked me if i actually liked him. I just said ' I'm not saying i do but I'm not saying don't' and my crush then said that its ok if i like him, then i changed the subject.After that he still sat next to me english as if nothing happened. Then a few weeks ago my crush asked his ex out and still is going out with her. After few ppl found out i liked him, everyone found out including his girlfriend (who i still talk to). Not long after he asked her out we were in science, my crush sitting next to me and his mate in front of me, we were doing our work when his mate ,again, asked me if i liked him and i replied with the same answer as before ' Im not saying yes but Im not saying no'. Both of them knew i was basically saying yes and my crush said ' its ok if you do just don't tell (his girlfriend)' . But the thing is she already knows. After everything that has gone off he hasn't acted any different with me. He makes me laugh all the time even when I'm sad he cheers me up. Please tell me what to do… xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2013): Hi, he has a GF and you are not his choice. Let this go and maintain friendship if thats what you want. Dont get obsessed over this crush and consider other opportunities or it will make you miserable and depressed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2013): You know he has a girlfriend but he likes you. He can't have two girlfriends and he is doing what boys do. Trying to see how many girls he can keep liking him all at the same time.
He is showing off for his mates. You are a smart girl. You won't admit liking him or not liking him. That way you don't make his girlfriend an enemy.
He's trying to keep the attention of both girls. Just ignore him a little bit. You can be nice and smile back; but just hang out with other friends a little more; to make your crush have to make a choice. He likes having you in close and likes knowing you like him. He still wants to have his ex and keep you hanging on a string. Don't let him do that to you.
If you pull away a little, then he has to come after you.
He knows you'll come to him if he doesn't. That way, he gets to keep you close so other boys can't crush on you, and he can still have his ex. See what he's doing?
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