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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid, I feel like it's time to just give up on my three year relationship. My boyfriend met a girl about two months ago and they seem to hit it off well and I'm suspicious of her. She is the total opposite of me. She is a huge and natural flirt and almost every conversation with her is all sexual, it's like all she talks about. She has been with tons of men and sleeps around a lot. She dated two of my boyfriends best friends and some of my friends and cheated on all of them. I on the other hand am a shy person and tend to keep to myself. I'm not flirty and I've only been in one serious relationship which is my current boyfriend. I feel like my boyfriend likes her because she's so flirty and he loves the attention. I myself have heard her say that her favorite thing to do is have sex. Guys who have been with her say she's a really easy girl. My friend who is friends with this girl showed me text messages from the girl and she was saying she thought my boyfriend was really hot and she was going to try and get with him.This girl is really beautiful and guys are all over her. She flirts with my boyfriend all of the time and he knows she wants him. I don't think she really likes him, but just wants him for sex. He continues to let her flirt with him and it makes me upset.Do I move on from my boyfriend or just deal with this friendship he has with this girl? I don't know what to do but this whole situation is really upsetting for me. I feel threatened by her and I think my boyfriend likes her more than a friend.
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reader, loveoverhate +, writes (21 May 2013):
tell him how you feel about it and tell him about the texts you saw that she sent and see how he reacts in the end you two are two different people and no man wants to settle down with a girl who gets around because she wouldnt be just his you on the other hand would be the prize if he chooses her he will soon realize loosing you was never worth it because she would do him the same way she did the others and he would be back trying to make things better between the two of you. you shouldnt be feeling this way and he may only like the attention because its something new but you should also tell her that you know all about her wanting him and tell him that its you or her and if he chooses her move on because you deserved better all along!remember talk to him about how you are feeling and what you know if he realy loves you and cares for you he will cut her off. good luck i hope all works out
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