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writes:Hi everyone. To start off Im engaged and happy for the most part. My fiancé list year got full custody of his kids which I love with all my heart. The kids mother went to jail and ate now getting out early.my fiancé knew about her getting out early but hid it from me and told his friend..and a few months ago he told me that he would never love me as much as he does her and I'm scared I'm going to kick to the crub when she gets out. He tells me he doesn't care about her anymore but I just have thus bad feeling that he does. He lies to me slot and would tell me the truth. Please someone help me. Leave him-wait it out or fight for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2013): I fell for a guy deeply. I want him, love him more than the air I breath. He left me for another gal. I'm not fighting for someone who doesn't want to fight for me.
Have some self respect for yourself. Move on. Get the love that is worth fighting for!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 May 2013):
 Well.... when the kids' Mother gets out of the klink, you'll find out in short order whether or not you're going to end up UNDER the bus, or riding in it!!!!!!
Ain't much you can do 'til then.... cuz "baby daddy" doesn't seem to be very forthcoming with the truth in these matters.....
Good luck.....
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reader, Got Issues  +, writes (21 May 2013):
 If he loves her more then there is no point fighting for him because it will be the two of them against you. If the guy is a liar and the ex a criminal, you will spend the rest of your relationship with him looking over your shoulder.
It sounds like a lot of drama and you need to watch him carefully because actions speak louder than words. An example is that he SAYS he doesn't care about her but he hides her early release date from you. You say he lies a lot, what else is he lying about? You'll never be able to trust him. Personally I would kick HIM to the curb.
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reader, loveoverhate +, writes (21 May 2013):
i think you should wait it out and see what he really feels he may not care about her anymore give him the benefit of the dought. just prepare yourself for the worst and hope for the best. i wish you good luck
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