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female
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30-35,
*archie
writes:i'm so so confused about everything that is happenin to me now. Me and my boyfriend of two months have been havin a fight. The fight is all about how much time we spend together. Not that im not spendin time with him, but since school resumed i've not been havin that time to spend with him. Sometimes, i cancel my lectures, just to spend time with him. Just yesterday he started abusin me, callin me selfish, that i only think about myself. He said that he was just wonderin if we were even dating dat i was not givin him what he want that he was tired of my apologies. I dont really know what to do because i love him any losin him is not in my agenda. Im tired of his naggin and i told him but since wen i told him, he would not speak to me. Im confused because i don't know his next step of action. Im lookin for the best word to say to him to make him understand that im not doin it on purpose. I just need help, my relationship is at stake please help me with advice. Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Queen_mermaid  +, writes (11 June 2013):
First of all, Know that its not you who is being selfish, its him actually. He should understand you. If it keeps going on this way, i don't think your relationship will work out actually.
But since you don't want to let go of him...i would advise you to look for a good occasion whereby his mood is good. Make him understand that currently you are busy with your studies and you are trying your maximum to spend your free time with him. Explain him once your studies are over, you'll spend your maximum time with him
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