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He cheated, dumped me, and now won't leave me alone

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Question - (11 June 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why won't my ex boyfriend leave me alone?

My ex boyfriend won't leave me alone.

I loved him so much. (I've never felt that way about a guy before)

He was the most perfect bf when we were together. He was sweet, gentle, passionate and I thought he loved me. He was too good to be true.

And yes he was I found out that he was sleeping with another girl behind my back. When I found out he dumped me.

We've been over for a while now and he won't leave me alone.

I've blocked his number many times but he just won't leave me alone.first I use to sugar coat it cause I cared but now I don't feel nothing for me him at all and I don't care for him.

How should I tell him to go away please?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2013):

Get you father or tough ass male family member to give him a call and tell him in uncertain terms to fuck off and stop contacting you. Make sure the family member lets the guy know if it continues you will be reporting him to the cops for harassment.

That's what I did the ex of my sister's friend who kept badgering my sister to tell her to contact him. He left her alone immediately.

OP get rid of the "please" timid shite. Hard ball with this asshole, he only does it because he knows you're a soft touch. Well your father, brother, uncle will make shit clear to him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2013):

He apparently got dumped by the other girl.

How much are you willing to bet that she didn't know about you, until you found out he was with her?

This guy has a humongous ego, and his sense of entitlement is unbelievable. He has a right to have his cake and to eat it too! So what gives you, the cheated girlfriend, the right to reject him? He thought you were too much in love to let him go.

I say this often. There is karma for how we treat others.

When the harm you've done boomerangs and hits home, who hurts the most?

The cheater, of course!!!

Stand your ground and move on. However; carry no grudges, just forgive and forget him. Allow him no contact whatsoever. He made his bed, now let him sleep in it.

He'll tire and give up.

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