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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:My husband has been texting/facebooking other women. When I realized he was I asked what they talked about and he couldn't remember and he deletes all messages. After seeing hundreds of messages I was making myself crazy wanting to always check the website, I made him put phone in his own name. He came home last week I asked to see his phone only messages on there was mine and a picture of another woman on Facebook message. I said what the heck? He said sent to wrong person...right!!! I asked him to show me text numbers on cell website to prove me wrong that he wasn't talking to someone and he refuses! Says my fault should have kept it in my name....please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2013): Hi honey.
Sounds like you're going out of your mind with worry about what he's up to? At the end of the day it's your life and your call what you do next. He's lying to you and getting a kick out of keeping you dangling and hurting. He's showing you a complete lack of respect and treating you like a fool that will always be there. Ask him to prove he isn't up to no good or leave and stick to it. Find some self respect and love for yourself. Really.... Aren't you worth more than this? Good luck, hugs and love - the English Agony Aunt x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2013): Judging by your post, you have a dishonest husband. He is the worst type; because he is crafty and he plays psychological games. He knows you're on to him; but he is good at covering his tracks. He lies to your face and acts as if you're a fool.I'm afraid it's your call. Married men don't just text/Facebook with other women; and deny it to their wives unless they are up to no good.He's most likely hooking up with these women at some point. You've already busted him with the messaging. What more proof would you need? Lying is enough.Now he's playing cat and mouse. You already have your proof. Cheats always slip up. They want to get caught. They get turned on by it. They leave bits of evidence to cause suspicion and to create drama.If you find one female agony aunt who would stay with this guy, it would shock the hell out of me. You are being played. So you have to come to a decision. Sometimes your dignity and well-being as a person, and a woman, must be your first priority. He doesn't seem to have any respect for you; and he intends to continue what he's doing, until you show him the door.The man is an ass and an insult to your intelligence. Find yourself a ruthless divorce attorney. Set him free.
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