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writes:Hello everyone I Would please appreciate some advice. As I’m unable to understand why a guy suddenly begins ignoring a girl.I have known this guy since September of 2012 and we would chat in science class every time but then we did not know much about one another but then the next semester happen to have English together so that is when we began chatting even more and more, and we got to know about one another and anytime he saw me he would smile and look happy , and that is when he would let me know his fears, frustrations, dislikes and would tell me when he got a good mark or his plans and I always listened to him, and we would share information and so on together and also laugh and joke together. SO last week he mentioned to me that out of all his friends he found it easier to speak to me but did not know why. He also apologized to last week for not speaking to me just for one day and I told him that he should not worry, as at the moment there is allot of school work to complete he also gave me a song to listen to on YouTube. But then this week for example today we had English together and I noticed he completely ignored me, and then we happen to be working in the same work area at school and he passed my desk but said nothing, and he just speaks to everyone around me but acts like I do not exist anymore I did catch him staring at me but that was it for the day. It feels really awkward for me personally because I known him since September of last year and I had no intentions of dating or anything I was just being friendly and nice towards him, but then now he acts like we never spoke or I exist and I feel bad because it’s sad for me to see everything end this way, hence it felt like we understood one another and were becoming good friends. I would please love some advice in understanding why this can occur? I'm confused and in need of some advice we are both in grade 11 than you very much!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2013): He may just be a moody boy. He may have some pressures at home and schoolwork may be heavy on his mind. Guys sometimes open up and sometimes we clam up. That's just our nature.You said you are only interested in being friends and not dating. That could be another thing weighing on his mind; because he may not like just being in the "friend zone."He may have seen you being friendly with another boy, and that may have made him a little jealous.He feels comfortable talking to you. Sometimes he doesn't; so just blame that on his mood. It's not your fault. Don't be swayed or manipulated by the moods and emotions of other people. That will drive you crazy. Just be yourself and stay upbeat. If he doesn't speak, then just ignore him until he misses you; and comes back like a little puppy wagging his tail for a pat on the head and your approval.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2013): Hi,
In my experience this sorta thing usually happens when the guy in question gets a girlfriend; it's usually the nice guys, as they don't want to give the wrong signals , lead girls on or even reassure insecure girlfriends- And he seems like a really nice genuine guy guy!
Don't be sad, it's not come to an end! It won't last long, because you're friends at the least, you clearly like each other's company. as you discuss thoughts and feelings, if the ignoring carries on, have a chat with with him and just say you've noticed it and wondered if there's anything wrong- miss his friendship- but maybe emphasise the word friendship, for the time being.
It'll be fine, don't be sad! Haha :) post with an update! ;) x
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