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writes:Really can't see a light where I am, right 4 yrs ago me and my first love split up. Now we was together for 4 yrs and you tried to do anything for me. And put up with me, grief at home and smoking weed. We never really argued. Now this girl was cute, funny ,sexy ,rampant ,loving,kind . She had a hot body and gorgeus smile, heck she was even rich ( had a boob job at 19). She was everything I wanted. The main problem was I was worried I couldnt look after her right as I have a low paid job and thought how could I look after her. Any way torwards the end of the relationship. I backed away from her as I felt useless. We had a quite gap of 3 months. Where we never met but txted etc.Over this period she was buying a flat. I thought dam I can't give her what she wants. And backed off I even didn't stay over once.with a gap of a few months of not seeing her, I realised what an idiot I had been went round only to find she had moved a bloke in. She wouldn't leave me alone while him being their and it made my head worse. Any how we have spoke every so often.but I never can see her the same way again.she's got another new man now ha. But I blame myself about the relationship ending as I didn't give it my all. I've had a relationship since but ended it as i didn't like this girl as much. I'm at home still with no money and no hope of the future. Deep down I know I will never be able to get a girl that gave me all them things, I can't see any positive at all . thanks for any help
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reader, oldbag +, writes (12 June 2013):
 Hi
You split up 4 years ago and she has moved on. It happens to us all, splits are rarely one persons fault so don't take the blame, you should just learn from mistakes not punish yourself by dwelling on them.
Sit down, make a list of what you want from your life and work out how to achieve it. Go to college at night, retrain, get another job. Be pro-active not inactive. Join the Navy even - *anything* to shake up your life. Your young and will fall in love again so be ready
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