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writes:Hi I am very sorry if this is complicated. I tried my best to explain. so My questions are:How can I know if I'm really over the friend I like? I have had feelings for a friend of mine for about 3 years I don't know If I'm over her or just telling myself I am. How can I know If I really like my lifelong friend?Another friend of mine, that I've known my whole life, and I have gotten much closer and I think I might be falling for her, but I am not sure if I really am or I just feel bad because she had confessed that she sometimes feel she wants to die. or if I just feel sorry for her.Is it a good idea to pursue the lifelong friend? she has told me she dosn't beleive in lables but as far as I know she has only ever dated guys and she talks about guys alot, Also she knows that I like my other friend (I haven't told her I'm not sure anymore) and the other friend knows that I think I might like my lifelong friend and knows I have liked her. Also if I said anything to my lifelong friend,I am terrified it will ruin the great friendship. I think about both of them constently! Though I've been thinking more about the lifelonf friend a bit more recently. I just don't know what to do! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2012): First of all you need to decide who you want to pursue a relationship with then you can think about the next moves. Are your friends open to same sex relationships. Are they also attracted to you? When you choose one, you could make subtle moves and see how she responds. If she asks you about the other girl tell her she's the one youve chosen.
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