I know he has bought lingerie for women in the past but with me he claims he's new the idea and won't. Is there something wrong with me?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

His MO use to be to buy his ex girlfriends flowers, lingerie and a card I found out. He has never done this with me. Victoria's Secret catalog arrived in the mail and he said look it's Victoria's Secret. I said and so what you going to buy me. He said I don't know, I'm new at this. I said I doubt that. I think something must be wrong with me for him not wanting to do this. Should I just buy the lingerie myself or find a new guy that will--ranting here. I thought must guys would love to buy their fiancees or girlfriends lingerie, if not the whole catalog. Like I said, he bought lingerie for his ex girlfriends. It makes me feel like he doesn't like my body or that there is something wrong with my body and that I wouldn't look good enough in lingerie for him. This has happened several times now when the Victoria Secret catalog arrives. He'll take notice of the catalog and make some comments about the models but never buys anything from there. All my other boyfriends would but he is the first to not so I find his behavior weird and that there is something wrong.

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