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writes:I want to ask the ladies a few questions. I hear so much about what MEN want from women and their relationships but not so much about what women want, in fact a lot of the time the women seem to be asking questions about how they can improve for their men, so...ladies, I have a few questions for you! Men, you might find some of my questions, or rather the answers, hurt your feelings, continue at your own discretion...Question 1: Does penis size matter? My answer: If it's too small, it's a turn off. Sorry, I know some people won't like this but I'm always honest.Question 2: Do you ever browse online for pictures of men that you find hot?My answer: Rarely.Question 3: Do you ever wish your partner would go down the gym and workout so he could look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club?My answer: LOL, you get the idea. Of course I do! BTW I love my partner very much.I'll ask more questions later, I'll just make sure I'm not offending anyone too much here....
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 November 2012):
 Question 1: Does penis size matter?
answer: no. SKILLS & WILLINGNESS matter.
Question 2: Do you ever browse online for pictures of men that you find hot?
answer: yes it happens, but rarely.
Question 3: Do you ever wish your partner would go down the gym and workout so he could look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club?
answer: When we met and married he was in top form but after a couple of work related "accidents" he is no longer fit, I don't have any expectations of how he should look - but I do wish he would eat healthier so he will be around longer.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (14 November 2012):
 1. Penis size DOES matter. If it's huge it's painful. If it's tiny it can't be felt. But most men think they're tiny when they're actually just right. (Your definition of "small" might not be the same as mine).
2. Do I ever browse on line for hot men? Not unless I want to piss off my husband (for browsing hot women) but it's more about their character than their looks anyhow. For instance, I think men that have a certain vulnerable quality are very sexy: Nicholas Cage, Johnny Depp.
3. Sometimes I do wish he'd work out and lose the beer cut, but generally it doesn't bother me (it's small) and most men that spend hours at the gym are shallow and too much into themselves. Plus then I'd have to go and I hate going to gyms. They're germy and full of lame women preying on guys to help them with the equipment. wink, wink.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2012): Question 1: Does penis size matter? First of all, the average size of a penis where I am is just over 5 inches and a women's vagina is around 4 inches, so length does not matter but I do think girth does, I don't mean huge, just average and up. I should also say that if I loved someone it wouldn't matter regardless.Question 2: Do you ever browse online for pictures of men that you find hot? In my whole time of using the internet I have perhaps done this 3 times and not because of their bodies, because of their faces and usually to show someone else what they look like if they ask.Question 3: Do you ever wish your partner would go down the gym and workout so he could look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club? I don't even think Brad Pitt is attractive, and I genuinely don't find 6 packs hot. I am 19 and this is perhaps rare, but I'd say about 80% of my attraction to someone is based on their personality, in terms of looks I prefer a more rocker look, think Phil Anselmo, Till Lindemann and long hair too. I also like a bit of chub to be honest. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2012): 1. Well I've never had one that didn't work for me so I'll say no but im sure there are exceptions to the rule.
2. Not just men. I prefer to look at Dp with 3 people but the woman is usually the focus. I've never just looked at naked men.
3. Nope he's prefect just the say he is. But mmmm his arms are so strong. I love em!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2012): Does penis size matter? not necessarily unless it's a micropenis...Question 2: Do you ever browse online for pictures of men that you find hot? I'd say rarely Question 3: Do you ever wish your partner would go down the gym and workout so he could look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club?Nah, I'm much more into slim men than the bulky ones, I actually like a kind of emaciated look when their cheekbones show lol yeah I prefer a beautiful bone structure over abs any day, I do work out but I wouldn't want the bf to get too obsessed about his body...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2012): This is fun, hope you don't mind a male answering.
Question 1: Does penis size matter?
Answer: Yes of course it does but rarely as much as the man it belongs to. But so does curve, direction it points and girth is generally more desirable than length. Big = filled feeling, which is great. Too big = pain, not so great for the man or woman. Average = also great and far more useful in terms of type of sex if used properly. Small = not a hindrance if used properly (women can tighten up to accommodate using kegels) Too small = better give amazing head, not always a deal breaker.
Question 2: Do you ever browse online for pictures of men that you find hot?
Answer: There's no need, there are hot men in everything you watch, every magazine you buy, almost everything you read contains a fantasy man who you can build an image of mentally. Besides women seem to much prefer to browse for other women to judge their clothes, envy their bodies or out of an attraction for the female form.
Question 3: Do you ever wish your partner would go down the gym and workout so he could look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club?
Answer: Yes without doubt and those who don't think it necessary can still appreciate how it looks and the effort put in. I have that body so I know what it's like to date woman you got with while fat and loves a bit of meat, who now has this body to play with.
Let's turn this around a bit and feel free to give your answers to these if you like.
Question 1: Does vagina size matter?
Answer: Yes it does, in the same ways as penis size does in a lot of ways except it's far more complex as there are way more parts and the size of each matter in a different way. Too tight = and sex is very slow, can be painful (especially if you have a foreskin) and sex is limited because of that. Too loose = no sensation, hard to keep an erection with so little friction. Anything in between = is workable and some are just a perfect fit. Women can tighten though so it's not a major problem. Here's where it gets complicated.
The clitoris: A small clit hidden by lots of skin can be hard to stimulate the right way and is a lot more work to get to. A large one like a mini-penis can be strange to get used to but far easier to stimulate once you do, the nerves are far more exposed. Clit size is as varied as penis size and has similar issues. Although far less profound. I prefer bigger and average ones, aesthetics is useless when your only reason for being down there is pleasure, the easier the better.
Labia size: Personally I like big ones, more to play with suck on etc. but it seems people have an obsession with having none or tiny ones. From what I read and hear most guys prefer smaller ones, but they don't have any bearing on performance so it's not a major thing. Again that seems to be an aesthetic thing, aesthetics are irrelevant, I have yet to see a healthy clean, vagina I didn't like.
Question 2: Do you ever browse online for pictures of women that you find hot?
Answer: Yes, I have never lost my appreciation for the beauty of women. If I see a beautiful actress in a movie I'll see if she has any nice pictures I can look at. Although my recent favourite is twitter, lots of regular women, wives, girlfriends with regular "imperfect" bodies use twitter as a means to show off their bodies and I love the look of a real woman's, non-airbrushed "imperfect" body.
Question 3: Do you ever wish your partner would go down the gym and workout so he could look like Olga Kurylenko in Hitman?
Answer: No, their body types are very different and I prefer my girlfriend's curves. She has a body type that looks beautiful with a little extra weight. I don't think she'd look prettier as a skinny girl at all.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (13 November 2012):
 Q1 - Honestly - No,but it bothers them
Q2 - Not diliberately but if one shows up when browsing
for something else....
Q3 - Not at all,prefer a bit of meat on mine not muscle
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 November 2012):
 Ok I’m game:
First of all I’m 52 so in case age makes a difference for you. I’ve had two children by C-section. I’m married to a younger man and purely monogamous (a newlywed) but in previous marriages I’ve been a swinger and open sexually.
1. Question 1: Does penis size matter? Average is best… not too big… I’ve never had one too small. Personally I would rather date an impotent man with a good tongue than a well-endowed guy who was clueless.
2. Question 2: Do you ever browse online for pictures of men that you find hot? Do you mean to go out and do it on purpose.. NO… never have. If I see a nice looking guy will I admire him, sure.
3. Question 3: Do you ever wish your partner would go down the gym and workout so he could look like Brad Pitt in Fight Club? NO but I do wish he would eat better and get some exercise so he will be healthy and live a long live with me. HOW they look is irrelevant to me.
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