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*ULIE MIKE
writes:please help i had sex twice with this married man who is driving me crazy,i know what i did was wrong but i couldnt control my self i was so attracted to him but ever since the last time we had sex this was like three weeks ago he hasnt kept intouch it pains me sometimes he can just speed past me with his car i dont know what i did wrong i feel so bad and also embarrased i thought he liked me o rather the sex because he could be coming back what is going on.he is not treating me well also
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reader, Answer  +, writes (19 November 2012):
 I know how it feels, I am going through this now.bt the difference is I am married too. though am feeling much better now after a couple of months, however am still hurting. All I can say is try n leave him for good. I know its not easy! He never loved you, you never was a part of his life. you were free sex for him, no one, I repeat NO one in this world empowered to treat you badly. So move on.
Best wishes.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (14 November 2012):
 He was using you. There's no love in his heart. He has a wife. He goes home to her every day. Celebrates her birthdays. Holds her at night when they fall asleep. Kisses her good morning every day. This is who he is sharing his life with. You were nothing more than a piece of ass. Do you really want this? Don't confuse sex with love. You may be have feelings for him, but clearly he does not feel the same way and you have to stop being available should he come calling a few weeks later for another booty call. You deserve so much more!
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reader, DV1  +, writes (14 November 2012):
 Leave him be and find your own person. What you did was really wrong, and you might want to take time to take a long hard look at yourself. You obviously have no problem destroying families and such, so you might want to go work on that...
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reader, notsop +, writes (13 November 2012):
 My best suggestion is to get on with your life and not worry about how this man is treating you. It sounds to me as if he's feeling some guilt over the fact that he had cheated on his wife. I know that it's easier said than done with someone that you're crazy about, but did you really expect a serious relationship with a man that is supposedly committed to a serious relationship with his wife? I'm not here to cast moral judgments on you but please consider that maybe one day, a few years down the road you will meet the man you've been looking for your entire life. You'll be happy and one day get married. I don't believe that you would like it very much if your husband has sex with another woman twice. Take this from a 37 year old man, that has been that husband and knows what type of damage this causes. It's terrible for everyone involved me, my wife, my children and the other woman. Sex is sex, if you have to find someone to sleep with, I promise that there are tons of single men that would be more than happy to accommodate you, treat you right and want to be with you. You may not realize it, but this man is doing you a favor by avoiding you. He doesn't care about you, he's treating you really bad. I know, I've been that man. I know this is not what you probably what you want to hear but I hope that you will take it to heart. I wish you only the best! Cheers
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reader, human_male  +, writes (13 November 2012):
 Either he used you now he's finished with you. He's ignoring you because he's moved on to his next conquest. Or he regrets cheating on his wife and is trying to put the whole thing behind him.
Either way all you can do is walk away and try to learn from the experience.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2012): Maybe his wife found out and forbid him to talk to you ever thought about that? I know you can't control your attractions but you can definitely control your actions. Its an entire process to have sex with someone so you can "help it" Stepping in s*it just happens but having sex is something you wanted to do and know you know what happens to the other woman. SHE NEVER GETS THE MAN! Now that you know that he isn't going to talk to you anymore go find you someone who is SINGLE and have all the sex you want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2012): "i dont know what i did wrong"You had sex with a married man. Married men who have sex with naive, horny, indiscriminate young women are scumbags."i feel so bad and also embarrased i thought he liked me o rather the sex"Unfortunately, your assumptions are incorrect. You were an easy extra-marital lay. "he could be coming back what is going on.he is not treating me well also"He is trying to tell you to buzz off and get lost. Having you as a piece on the side is not worth the risk to his marriage which he has no intention of ending of the cushy life he enjoys which he has no intention of giving up, certainly not for a promiscuous barely-legal chick who threw herself at him. "What do I do?"What you SHOULD do is learn from your mistake.
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