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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Met a guy, talked for hours, kissed, he walked me home and when I didn’t want him to leave took me to his where we cuddled (no sex just kissing – despite him having an erection not once did he try anything, he was a gent). He took me in a taxi home and hugged me goodbye and we started texting non-stop for about 4 weeks, but then stopped as much. He told me he liked me with a week and said if it wasn’t for us living 2 hours apart he would have taken me for a drink by then. Then things got messy and I started seeing someone else (didn’t think that by texting the first guy it was going anywhere or would work – considering distance). The first guy asked if I’d come see him on certain dates, which I declined saying I was busy, so he suggested a weekend once uni started. However, in a stupid drunken mistake I text him saying I didn’t want him to stay, without any further explanation or a further word.3 weeks later I sent another drunk text (having ended things with the guy I was seeing), that I only didn’t want him to stay due to seeing someone else. This led to a horrible and annoying conversation where we talked about him visiting and I said “I honestly didn’t think you seemed interested in a visit”, to which he replied an entire day later that he thought he was the one who suggested it. Understandably he was annoyed and I though he wouldn’t speak to me again. Then a week after he facebooked me for a while, saying how the day will come when we see each other again, and I’m sure our paths will eventually cross again. I challenged him to a drink off a while ago and he was saying how it’d be cute to watch me try to win and loose anyway. We ended the conversation on good and very flirty terms, but now haven’t spoken in 2 weeks. The only contact has been him liking my status yesterday (which sounds like a little girl think to say haha). I know I’ve messed him around but I never thought he actually meant it, and I have always liked him, even when I was seeing the other guy. What do you reckon he’s thinking about this situation? Any suggestions are welcome, but I will reiterate that I do feel bad and have no intention to further mess this up!Thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): Try saying sorry and suggesting you meet for a grown up evening... maybe dinner?
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reader, citadel  +, writes (13 November 2012):
You're a free agent, why would you think you messed things up?
You can do whatever you want, you sound confident and comfortable with the status quo. Life is good.
He could have had many dates, flings, friends in as much time. I wouldn't put any quilt towards it.
However, my only glitch in it all is the drinking.
If you've got a good head, don't soak it in regret.
Also, be careful who's on your sofa, some erections don't take no for an answer.
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