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anonymous
writes:so i met this girl who is the one i have always wanted to find,we have so many things in common that it's scary. our conversations are magical, but here is the problem. she and one of my best friends had this thing a couple of months ago, nothing serious,some kisses and idk what else, but it never blossomed into a relationship( it was something weird, i think she never liked him enough to make it serious). so i thought it wouldn't be a problem if i talked to her, we even set a date to hang out, and to be respectful to my friend i asked him if it bothered to him( i didn't thought it would becoz he has been with other girls). he was furious, he told me he still has feelings for her and that he was very uncomfortable with the idea. he is a good man, and a good friend, and i don't want to sacrifice this friendship, but it's becoming painful to speak to this girl becoz we have such a great conection. what should i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2012): Bros before hos OP. Your choice is easy, choose a girl who things may not even last long with or choose your best friend.
If you get with this girl you throw away all those years of friendship, every great experience you've had with him, every time he's had your back all of that goes for good and for what? A girl that you may not even last a few weeks with?
Pretty easy choice for me OP. I never get with my friends exes, their love interests or their sisters.
I would never risk my friendships for a girl, when there are 3.5 billion more girls out there.
So you either choose what your dick wants or what your head wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2012): The thing is they are both your friends. But she is who is not clear here. He probably likes her so much but she is just playing to be "friends" with him but is showing you some "affection" also. I think you should respect your friend feelings. Look, see how she behaves. Do you think it is fear? She is playing games with both of you. I would rate better keep the friendship with your male friend than start a new game with this woman.
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