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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I have not seen this guy for 8 years. We ran into each other on a train. He looks cute to me and he gave me this compliment when he saw me at the beginning "you look pretty, where are you heading?". We chatted on the train ride and exchange contact details. I emailed him and we arranged a time to meet up for drinks. He initiated the idea to catch up for drinks, I come up a time and venue. We ended up meeting up for dinner instead of drinks. I feel that we had a great time catching up. After an hr or so, hthen asked me the reason why I relocate to Denmark - was it because of a boyfriend in Denmark? (Note before him asked such a question, I have told him I relocate is because of my parents and career).So does that mean he was "testing the water"? 15 mins after saying bye to one another (after the meeting/dinner), he text me this message "Great catching up with you, catch you again soon". Next morning, I replied "perhaps we can do drinks say Friday?!" I then suggested next Friday.. he wasn't free and so intead he suggested another time.. I know he has a very tight work schedule so I suggested just any time whenever he is free. He still keeps on suggesting a time to meet, so a time has been set. So what does that text message mean? does that mean at least he finds my company enjoyable? i m not so sure if he likes me though.. Do you think this guy is interested in me? Or what is he thinking? All I know he is a decent guy (according to common friends). Thanks advance for the time and help.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 May 2012):
 I wouldn't over think it either, but it seems to me that he wants to spend more time with you.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (21 May 2012):
 If he wasn't interested, would he spend time trying to set up the next date? Relax, and enjoy the courtship! I hope it all works out!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 May 2012):
 It is still early days so don't over think this. You both met up and it sounds like he has a good time just as much as you did. He is interested in meeting up again so that is a good sign off course. It means he wants to spend time with you. So just take things as they come and see how it goes. Get to know him and enjoy his company and see where it goes. Good luck.
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