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writes:I have been with my boyfriend almost 3 years but recently everything has been going down hill his mate is round 24/7 and never wants to go any where with me and we only now have sex twice a month when it used to be 3 or 4 times a week this problem has been going on for 2 months now i dont know what to do! Reply to this Question
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reader, sweet seduction  +, writes (22 May 2012):
ive been in this situation about 2 years ago. i noticed my ex wasnt the same we never went out, we only saw each other at night as a sleep over. the sex was at least once a week. he was more with his friends especially in the day time and never had time for me. until he broke up with me. he kept breaking up and making up. until i got tired and i left him and met someone else. when he decided to come back it was too late because i had another man beside me. he then realized what he had lost. he was non stop crying and showing up at my door. but i new i couldnt go back even if he was a change man. he treated me like garbage. it seems to me your boyfriend is down that rode. talk to him about how you feel, if he still continues leave him. i guarantee you it will make him see what he has. you never know what you got till its gone.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 May 2012):
 Communication!! Have you spoke to him about this? Asked him how he feels, talk about your sex life see where the cause is for it going down hill? Are you making enough effort? Is he telling you he does not want to have sex any more? You both need to sit down and discuss where it is slowing down and both make effort to improve it.
As for his friend, well again it needs to be talked about. Tell him you like his friend but that sometimes you just want you and him to spend some time alone, so compromise on that one as well, don't let him think that it is okay to spend 24/7 with his friend and show you no attention. You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he is not willing to change then I would be rethinking the relationship.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (21 May 2012):
 I assume you have asked him why the change- less sex, seeing friend more, etc... What was his answer?
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