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writes:So i was with this guy for two years and then he decided to join the air force and the closer it got to hi leaving for basic the more he pushed me away and we fought finally we broke up. A week and a half later he's dating this other girl and three weeks after that they are engaged and a week after that he left for basic. i was completely ripped apart. After he got back he started randomly texting and calling me causing the fiance to hate and threaten me. His family practically disowned him seeing as she screwed them over while he was gone and wut he did to me as well as my family hating him. Now after six months he's called it off and is trying to make amends with everyone and trying to get me back claiming he was only with her because he thought i hated him and wanted to pretend she was like me... What on eath should i do?
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reader, cinc71  +, writes (24 May 2012):
 He left you once and got ENGAGED?! You'll never trust him and if you do get back together, he will probably leave again for someone else. Look ahead and leave him behind you deserve better. Good luck! :)
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reader, amenthyst3356 +, writes (21 May 2012):
I agree with Aunt Honesty. Your boyfriend found someone else and then he came back and started texting you. I can see why the exfiance got so jealous. My boyfriend did something a little similar but he met the woman in basic and they started up a relationship there. It is so very hard to trust again and everytime he texts another woman it will make you wonder if he is looking again. If you do take him back I suggest therapy, it will probably be the only way to get past it.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 May 2012):
 Really it is up to you what you want to do here. Personally if it was me I would not take him back, for the simple reason is would you really be able to trust him again? I can see that he moved way to fast with this girl and it probably was a rebound relationship, but still he betrayed you. What would make him think that you hated him for him to break up with you and meet a new girl? Sounds to me like he is just making excuses because things did not work out with her. I guess though that this is only my opinion and it is totally up to you if you want to go back there, just ask yourself though would you be truly happy?
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