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anonymous
writes:Hello:)Thankyou in advance for any advice.Right basically, I'm in a situation.At my boyfriends the other night, I discovered he watches porn. I wasn't snooping, I was typing in a 'youtube' in the search bar and a porn site came up in the history because it began with you.At first I didn't think anything, my ex used to watch it all the time and it was on his history all the time.However, this time is bothered me because it said 'live' in the title so I assumed it was one where you watched girls live,so, me being me! I had a look on the site just to see what it was like. and you had to sign up for it. and I don't know if my boyfriend has signed up or not, but if so he's paying to watch girls live! the type where you talk to them and tell them what to do etc.I had a look in his history and there was a page from the porn site with 'Delilah' at the end, and it was a girls website!!!So, my question is...Should I be upset? because I am a lot,and how do confront him?xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2012): I don't see the need for porn in a relationship especially live cams that's just wayyy too far. Why is he looking when he has you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2012): are you morally justified in being upset?
are you reasonable in being upset?
Those are two different issues. it's very common for guys to view porn on the internet since it's so widespread and easily available. So if you're asking is it reasonable to be upset, I would say, you'd be hard pressed to find a guy who does not view porn at least some of the time, at least occasionally no matter how rarely. So where do you draw the line?
but if you're asking if you're morally justified in being upset, that's something that depends on your values and beliefs.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (21 May 2012):
 It's not a matter of should or shouldn't, you say you are upset. I think most people consider having web cam sex to be cheating. You should talk to him about it.
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