A
female
age
30-35,
*ak-nam
writes: he is my best friend from last two years.our friendship started in college. we used to chat daily on phones . but our classmates and my friends always take our friendship in wrong way and they tease me all time that he is my bf.I never like their teasing . so at beginning i avoid their teasing but they tease me so much i stopped talking with my friend. he asked me reason about why i am not talking with him. i started avoiding him because i need sometime.he always asked me the reason so one day by mistake i told him the truth that everybody tease us about our friendship and that why i stop talking to him. he didn't speak a word and left away. he fight with me everyday about why i had told him like this.know he thinks i am not his true friend . he tried for 4 months that i should talk comfortably with him. few days earlier he call me and finally asked me whether i am talking with him or not.at that time i didn't reply him and know he is not talking with me. i realized my mistake and called him but now he didn't want to talk with me. he is very upset about what i did to him . did i break his heart. i want my best friend again in my life . please help me what should i do to get him back in my life . or whether i should wait and give him his own time.
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reader, Alex242 +, writes (22 May 2012):
Oh, and the more the teasers see they get to you, the more they will tease. I know it can be difficult, but laugh and walk away when next they start.
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female
reader, Alex242 +, writes (22 May 2012):
I know it is a massive pain when people incessantly tease you.
Perhaps you should apologise to your best friend for letting the teasers get in the way of the friendship, and tell him it will not happen again. If he comes back, ignore the teasers.
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