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writes:(UPDATE) Ok so now i'm getting kinda cheesed off, my girlfriend is ignoring me and it's hard to figure out if she's doing it on purpose, or if it's just something that i might not be able to see, because at the end of the day i don't know what she does when she's home alone so i can't make accusations, but i just need some help here, do you think that she's ignoring me on purpose? i've tried calling her but there's no answer she never replies to my text messages and i'm not constantly hounding her either i just wanna know that everythings alright i guess, it's hard to put into words, but any re-assurance would be appreciated (i've been in bad relationships before and i really don't want to have to my failed relationships notch go to number 23....)
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reader, Mr.issues21 +, writes (28 May 2012):
Mr.issues21 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey thanks for the answer man, but were no longer together, it just didnt work out, i found out she didnt feel the same way about me so we called it off. thanks anyways though :)
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reader, Ashley0112358 +, writes (25 May 2012):
 You may need to relax a little and put a little trust in her.You haven't said how old she is or what you both do (school/college/uni/work) so can't really give you suggestions on what might be keeping her from answering your calls or texts, if in school - uni for example she may be busy doing coursework or essays.You also haven't mentioned how often the texts and calls are. The last thing you want to do is scare her away by seeming to needy or controlling. No one likes being called or text every couple of hours, as we all need space.Im sorry that the answer isn't more complete but without more information its hard.However to sum things up:YES, she may be ignoring you on purpose if she has studying or homework to do.Remember, no news is good news, so just assume she is ok until told otherwise.There is no need to worry when she is home, think of it this way, what do you do when you are home? likely thing is she does the same things. Everyone goes home at the end of the day, they eat, work, watch TV, workout and sleep. (not a comprehensive list and by no means in order)
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