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writes:Theres a girl who I've recently gotten to know. . .Ive caught her looking at me many times when we are at meetings for some extra curricular events, but i dont noe whether that is because she is trying to see if im looking at her. We've spoken every now and then, and she's also invited me along to an event which she was going to. . .but I didn't see the message until it was too late.Recently, we were talking at one of our group gatherings and we got talking about each other and past relationships and values and how we both don't like sleeping around and all that. . . basically our values matched. . . then after that she started asking me for advice on how to you politely let down a guy. . .because there was this other guy who she likes as a friend but keeps asking her out. . . and she wanted a guys opinion on how to let him down gently but keep him as a friend. . . so i told her to just be honest with the guy. Then later I asked her about how do girls show a guy she is interested which she also answered.So the question is . . . does this mean I've been friend zoned with this girl. . . or does she just want a guys opinion and im being over analytical? Reply to this Question
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reader, jasonvpn  +, writes (22 May 2012):
I'm with Code Warrior on this one. This man speaks the truth!
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reader, MrWombat +, writes (21 May 2012):
 Hmmm - maybe ask her? "Babe, I kinda lik you, but if you have friendzoned me then it's over". In a teasing, nonserious way, of course. Then follow through on your actions. If you don't get positive about what you want from her, then she hasn't friendzoned you: you have.
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