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writes:Hm... I'm kind of confused. Ive been seeing this guy for a little bit now and throughout the week he spent 4 nights at my place. He's always really awesome at staying in touch and sending me little texts here and there to see how im doing but last time i saw him was thursday and i heard from him on thursday night through text and I havent heard anything since! :( Do you think he got over it? I'm trying to be rational and think that he did spend a lot of time with me throughout the week so he probably wanted the weekend to hang with friends which i totally understand and want him to do but im just confused as to why he hasnt been in contact with me at all :(. I rarely initiate text because i never want to bug guys so i leave them be. I know the simple answer would be... oh just text him and see what hes up to! But i always have this irrational fear that ill be bothering him. I never want to be annoying to the person im seeing so i always give them a lot of space. I think i have trouble finding a balance between showing affection and giving too much space. I need help... what should i do? Should I wait it out to see if he texts me? Is he over it?
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reader, curious1987  +, writes (25 May 2012):
 He could be waiting for you to text him or call . do just pick up the phone and ask how he is and when he wAnts to meet. maybe he thinks you are not interested any more, because you never initiate the calls or texts. Guys like to feel wanted. He is your boy friend, so just pick up telephone and callhe won't think you are bugging him. let me know how it goes. Good luck Xx
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