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female
age
41-50,
*pumie
writes:Hi everyone. I've got an insecurity problem. We've been dating with my bf for 6 and half years the first 3 years I was leaving in hell, he cheated with a women 5 years older than him as I was dating him an they had a child. My values is that when I get into a relation I asked if a person is with someone or not and he told he doesn't have. I only found out after the kid was 1 year old and at that time they where separated because the women didn't tell him that she's having an 18 years old son. After some time we got back together and he showed some remorse, we went for a blood test and take it where we left off. Now my problem is that I lose it because I don't trust him. I check his phone when he is not around and make sure that when I call him he must says babe or my love. Worst is that this woman is still working with him even though I'm sure of their relationship as it is because of the kid. I battle to completely trust my boyfriend.
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reader, JaneSmith2012  +, writes (17 May 2012):
 I think if you feel insecure around this guy because of his previous bout of cheating then its better to leave him ..
Further its possible that he might not be able to cut himself off completely from the other woman because he has had a child with her ...
Why be in a relationship with a guy who has already taken you for a ride , and whom therefore u cannot trust anymore??
I think being in a relationship with this cheater a second time around is only going to disturb your peace of mind .... My advice is move on to somebody whom you can completely trust ...
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