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writes:Helloo :) my crush is in the year above of me. We only talk in person (which I prefer to be honest) Because he is in the year above, he is in none of my lessons, however we walk home together sometimes. He flirts with me alot, he is playful like tripping me up, chucking things at me etc. and he makes excuses to touch me, for example we were messing around when he comes up behind me and wraps his arms around me so I couldn't move, but we stood there for ages and it turned into a hug. Also once all his friends were teasing me (in a nice way)when one of his friends put their arm round me in an apologetic way, he got jealous and tripped me up so it would be ruined haha :) However over time I realised that this boy hides his feelings. So if hes upset he wont show it (If you know what I mean?) so its hard for me to work out how he is feeling. Last week he left school to go on study leave. On his last day, i went into my friends form to say goodbye to each of them and write a goodbye note in their books. When I walked in he was the first one who saw me and did his disgusted face (which mean hello) then jumped to his feet and immediately ran over to ask me to write in his book. and of course I wrote a nice little goodbye message to him. As I was writing it I sat on the table and was writing it, when he sat behind me on the table and kept pushing me off in his joking way. But after a while he stopped and when I finished writing in his book we just sat there back to back talking, which was really nice. The Other friends started asking me to write in their books so I had to leave him. When he decided to go back to his other class he pulled me aside and asked me If I was walking (on thursdays we have a club and we sometimes get picked up)and I said I didnt know yet, and asked if he was. He said that if I was he would walk with me. so I obviously said I would. When he left my friend said we were really cute together ;) Sadly after school his sister had to pick him up because of a family crisis, so our walk never happened.So now he has left school and I want to ask for his number, but I just can't. I was going to ask for it over facebook, but I find that kind of cowardly. so I was going to ask him at our club, but he had to leave early and I never got the chance. But I need help with a way to ask him, like if I asked him over facebook what would I say to not make it sound stupid? and same for in person if I have to?So I guess I have 3 questions:1) To you does it seem like he likes me?2)Any tips to ask for his number?3)How can I show him I like him without telling him?Thanks :) xx
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (19 May 2012):
 1) Seems like it is more than just friendship from what you have said, sounds like it is cute and playful.
2) Facebook is a great way and he wont say no to it so dont worry! :) Just have a chat like usual and it will be natural. If you have mutual friends try and meet more over summer and do some fun activities in the sun etc! :)
3) Usually people can tell if someone likes them, usually from the way you look at them and it seems whenever you are around each other you talk so it must be obvious maybe to everyone around you guys but each other!
Just see how it goes but dont rush it! Good luck! :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 May 2012):
 1) Yes it does sound like he likes you a lot, my guess is that he is the same as you and he just does not know how to ask you out or how to take your friendship to the next level. Am sure at your age this is all new to the both of you, so sometimes it is hard for you and him to express how you truly feel.
2) If it needs to be done over facebook well then just keep it simple and straight to the point. Just write him a mail ask him how he is keeping and if he has any plans for over the summer. Say to him that if he wants to keep in touch over the summer then just to text you or ring you and then leave him your number, at least that way you are not asking for his and he has the opportunity to use your number then if he wants.
3) As for showing him you like him without telling him, well it can be a hard one. But if you smile at him, hug him back now and again, flirt with him a little, laugh at his jokes, write x's at the end of messages if you begin to text each other, suggest you both hang out together over the summer, and hope that he gets the picture. Good luck.
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