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writes:I want to have sex with my girlfriend,I dont want to be forceful or anything and im not sure how to ask... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2012): You don't ask. You get her to a place where you can be alone and can have sex, and you just go from kissing to touching to taking clothes off to sex.
I've never in my life asked a girlfriend for sex because she might say no hehe. Better to just fool around until she's aroused enough to want it. Of course if she stops you or says she doesn't want to then just respect that.
You don't have to be forceful but you do have to get her in the mood first. It's not rocket science and girlfriends really don't mind you trying it on as long as you're respectful enough to stop if they say stop. Other than it's expected that you will try it on. How else is she supposed to know you desire her sexually if you don't?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (17 May 2012):
 Out to dinner one night, on a romantic evening, where you've enjoyed a nice meal and had a great time, walk her home and give her the best kiss ever. Look into her eyes and say, "That was so wonderful. I feel great, you are amazing. What should we do next?"
And then wait and see what she suggests. Ask that question, "what should we do next?" after you kiss or begin to do other things.
How old is she, by the way?
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