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*ickedlycute
writes:please help im a female ive had two boyfriends.then in high school i had a crush on my friend sence high school but he said its good that were friends he has a gf but i still have a lil crush on him i see him in collaage. . but the thing is that for some times i feel like im atracted to girls. and my mom has asked me sometimes if i am and i tell her no. but sometimes i feel i am gay. what should i do. but i also like guys i have never gone out with a girl. but i feel atracted to some girls. and i dont want to hurt my parents if i am gay.
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reader, wickedlycute +, writes (18 May 2012):
wickedlycute is verified as being by the original poster of the question I could see my self with my crush but also with a girl. I dont know what to do sometimes i dress girly sometimes i dont. And my dad told my mom thet he had suspicions of me liking girls. And my mom asked me and i said no. But i dont know my parents are cRistian.
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reader, Aaronlover12 +, writes (18 May 2012):
I know how u feel mate. But I'm gay and this is Wat I did when I told my parents I was gay. I just told them and u kno Wat they said, " We just want u to be happy "! We don't care. Just sit down with them and tell them and say its Wat u want and it's just Wat u r. Sometimes parents just need to sit down and talk about it. Trust me they will understand. That's how I was when I first told my parents, but I was born gay. I was scared of Wat they would think of me. I thought they wouldn't want anything to do with me. But u just got to tell them. It's ur life. Express ur inner u. Take my advice and just tell them when there happy.
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reader, floridaboy15 +, writes (18 May 2012):
You may be bisexual. I wouldn't tell your parents until you are 100% sure of anything. You don't want to say something quite yet because that might be just a normal attraction to an attractive person. I would wait a bit longer and experiment. Maybe try seeing a girl and see if you like it, sometimes you may be surprised of the outcome. Or it may turn out that you aren't truly attracted to girls sexually, but just physically. Both are totally fine what ever the case may be. Good luck! I wouldn't worry about a thing!
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