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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i am an 18 year old teenager whom was dating an 18 year old boy in my school...we have been dating for 5 months and fighting alot but that has not stopped me from loving him,he tried breaking up with me 3times until we decided to let go and be friends but now there is a bad rumour being spread by his friend that i dated him inorder to get too his friend which is not true now my ex boyfriend is angry at me and refuses to talk yo me his friends are also angry and he hates me now..i really love him and want him back how can i get him to believe me and love me again.help
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 May 2012):
 If he does not believe you then he is not worth your time. He may be angry but at the end of the day if he was mature about all of this he wouldn't have listened to these rumours he would have went up and asked you for your side of the story, but he didn't, he chose that this is the truth.
I understand that it is not nice for you to have to deal with this. Why don't you confront the guy that started this rumour in front off all of his friends, walk right up to him and be confident and loud and ask him why he felt the need to spread lies about you, this should put him in his place.
As for your ex boyfriend it is his loss not yours and I guess all you can do is accept that he does not want to be friends any more and walk away with your head held high because you know you have done nothing wrong.
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