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writes:This is about another young adult going crazy over a matured teacher.More specifically, about a 22 year old post grad student falling for a 26+ year old communications skills teacher.She was a replacement teacher, who took very few (only three) sessions with us. In the first two lectures, I can't recall having any particular feeling towards her, but as her views and perceptions along with her career came clear, I couldn't stop thinking about her. She's an arts grad with masters in English Literature and a Ph. D (MPhil actually) in teaching English.About a week ago, I sent her a short message on facebook without adding her, to which she hasn't yet replied. But she is anyway not very active on facebook, that's what the visible part of her profile depicts. It's been about three weeks since I last saw her, and now it's getting really hard for me to get over it. I've found that the only girls I fall for are really good in english, especially writing, and have keen interest in human behavior and reading books the most. I am getting restless and powerless thinking about her.Generally this feeling wears off after a while, after I get to know them a bit i.e. But here, the saddest part is, she was a teacher just for one semester, that too for a few days. We never got enough to communicate. And I can never know when I would. Even if I could after my college begins and I do some searching around to find what extra stuff she is into, it's gonna take about two more months since the semester's almost to its end now.Since it's been more than fifteen days, I've inferred that I'm in love with her, along with all the depressions of a single sided romance, and love in general.I really need help in two things,1. Quick fix coping up with this dilemma, since I'm midst my exams and I still have one more test to go in which I am really having trouble concentrating.2. If I should go about her?? And if yes, how!Any help, criticism, comments or plain flaming is appreciated.
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reader, lovingnerd +, writes (22 May 2012):
lovingnerd is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks a ton for your insightful comments! So yeah, I did go and meet her in person, talked a bit. She added me on facebook, and hoping to meet her again the next week.
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I confess, intelligence is sort of sexy, and addictive!
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (18 May 2012):
I do not think you really love you. It just seems like more infatuation. You want something you can not have, and because she is a teacher and much older than you, it makes it more "taboo" and therefore more desirable. I understand you do like her lot but there are plenty of fish in the sea and there are many more like her out there.
You should be more realistic and brave about this. If you want to ever succeed OR hope to ever progress, you need to start a real conversation with her. No sense in falling in love with an imagination.
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reader, MrMcgalliard  +, writes (18 May 2012):
i say go for it bro, surely soneone knows how to get ahold of her, try facebooking her again...there has to some way to contact her. and as for getting over for your test just relax, its not like you can get with her instantly anyway...itll take plenty of time and patience...keep at it, you'll figure it out...i hope she's good looking if your going through all this distress lol
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