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writes:Konbanwa, Mina-san! Ogenki desu ka? Shiawase!Lol, ----- is teaching myself japanese. Anyway, I have a questionSo I have a friend, let's call him MickI have known Mick ever since middle school. I always thought he was sexy and had a little crush on him but I never told him, but we are good friends. Today, I had just found out that he had always wanted to kiss me and that he thought I was cute and stuff.He told me to tell him if I wanted to,and I said noI told him no because,I feel like you should only kiss someone if you are dating themMe and him aren't dating, and he clearly stated that all he wanted was a kiss and I didn't like thatSo I was like, Honestly Mick, I would but I wouldn't lolAnd he got all sad and what not and I was like ahh you'll get over it and he was like no I wont I have known you for how many years and I still want one.I just don't wanna be like everybody else you know. It just seems like everybody thinks its okay to just kiss someone just because they are visually attracted to themI don't think that's cool at all...it's just such a waste. I know a kiss with someone I like may not be all rainbows and sparkles but I feel like it would be much more fulfilling. Isn't it?I mean, don't get me wrong, Mick is really cute and I mean, I'm kind of a perv and I've ...copped a few feels just for laughs XD and his offer was very tempting but the fact that all he wanted was a kiss just didn't sound right to me.Plus, I like someone else now and I think he may like me back and I have so much going on, I don't wanna mess anything up. I wanna be as careful and as slow as I can during high school.Do you guys think I made the right choice? Or was I being too uptight.
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reader, Jordann +, writes (17 May 2012):
Honestly, he should respect your view of "I only kiss people I date". He shouldn't be worth your time if he can't respect that because it's reasonable. If he likes you so much then he should want to be in a relationship with you.
I wouldn't risk jeopardizing a potential relationship that could be good, actual thing for you. So I believe you made the right choice.
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