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writes:Okay, back in March my girlfriend's great grandma died, and she was very close to her. She was sad for about a week, and then she started to be normal again. Then all of a sudden one day she just starts acting different and not happy. Then eventually we went on a "break" and then she said she doesnt have feelings for me anymore which doesnt make sense to me because she was always making tweets like she misses me and everything. Anyways, we're back together now, and she seemed happy the first few days, like when we were together, and through texting (i can just tell when shes happy when she's texting) and now again, all of a sudden, she's never happy. I've even told her she's acting different and she says she's just not happy nowadays. It affecting our relationship like it had before like how she's not herself around me and texting me, and its frustrating me too because we used to be a damn near perfect couple, and we have that potential again. She just cant seem to get over losin her grandma and letting it go. I dont want to just tell her that, because I dont want to be insensitive. She even says that nobody can make her happy anymore, but she seems to have more fun when she's with other people, which causes insecurity for me. I have no idea what to do. I dont want to give up, but our relationship just seems like a joke because we're just depressed all the time. Does anybody have any advice on this? I just want her to be her old self again...
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (18 May 2012):
Sorry to hear that. I wish ya the best of luck. Leave her be and just live a little for yourself now. I'm sure you had it tough tending to all her feelings. Now you are free so go out and have fun.
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reader, Jordann +, writes (18 May 2012):
Jordann is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. But she finally ended it. I'm not outgoing enough. Shocker
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reader, Xearo +, writes (18 May 2012):
I think you need to give her space because like you said, she seems to have fun with other people. The more you ask her if she is ok, the more she will be reminded of the pain she had. The thing is there is very little you can really do because for one, she really does seem like she is not into you anymore, or she just wants to hang with other people and forget the pain she had. I'm not really sure what to say but people do change and well its not like you are doing anything wrong. I know it's not what you want to hear because if you were actually doing something wrong, you can fix it..but this is all her. Give her some space, be happy, prepare for the worst.
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