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In a great relationship for 3 years, but I feel I have missed out on playing the field! What should I do?

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Question - (17 May 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

soo i have a relationship with a beautiful woman and have been for three years...the thing is i like looking at other woman and have a huge interest in talking to other women but i havent cheated on her physically or even went through with talking to other women. i cant imagine not being with her but me being 20 i feel like im cheating myself out of living...i never had much of a party life and never slept around like most teenage guys, this is my first and only relationship ive ever had so even if i did break up with her, playing the field would be easier said than done...perhaps im just scared to settle down... but what should i do?

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A male reader, Dataluke United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2012):

Dataluke agony auntI am in the same position as you my friend, I too am in a long term committed relationship at the age of 19, and to be honest, I have never been happier.

Yes there are times when I think how fun it would be to play the field, but I then realize that if I did that, I wouldn't have my wonderful partner.

Don't focus on what you don't have or what might have been, focus on the lovely relationship you have now. If you still continue to feel this way then you might want to talk to have a serious think about what you want.

All the best, Dataluke

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