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writes:Is it possible for a man to use porn to remind him of his girlfriend and the things they did? My boyfriend claims he went through his collection to look for girls that look like me to remind him of me when I'm not there when he is masturbating, he says he looks at them them closes his eyes thinks of me then looks at them and thinks of me again is he making this up? It sounds too nice to me. Does anyone else do this? Most of these times did take place when we were doing sexual things the night before, so there is a chance he did this because I left him horny.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (8 June 2012):
Yes its probably true, I chose porn with women that remind me of my wife. ...... and, err, um, old girlfriends!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 June 2012):
 It is possible. But it is highly unlikely that Loving Memories of Girlfriend are the only reasons why he uses porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2012): I think he is spinning you a line because he doesnt want you to be upset. He could have waited until he was with you and unleashed his desires! Or asked for some pictures of you for his private enjoyment if he is that into you. I dont think he really needed porn and to pretend it was you to `help` him lol. Like many other men, he just loves watching sex and looking at other women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2012): I have used porn and fantasized that it`s my wife in them. I also carry some fantasies on because they are good ones and last more than once. To avoid upsetting "mind made up type people" it does not mean that he does, I am just telling you that he just might be telling the truth for all anyone knows, thats all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2012): I'm with marieclaire. If he was thinking about you, he could just use his imagination. He just told you that so you wouldn't get upset about him looking at other women to masturbate. It's also not anything to be upset about, because it has nothing to do with you. It's just that a lot of people don't fantasize about what they already have in real life. Since he has you, he fantasizes about other women. That doesn't mean he wants them in real life. He uses them as a masturbatory aid, nothing more. He sees you as the woman he loves.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2012): I know some that do, they've asked me if that's weird very often.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 June 2012):
 I wouldn't doubt him, at the end of the day, he was horny you weren't there so he found himself another solutions. I wouldn't think to much in to this, most men just use porn as a starter they do listen to it but they use there imagination. So it is very likely that he does think about you.
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