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*rConfused99
writes:Hi,I am a 24 year old male and been in a relationship for 3 years and 6 months now already with the same woman and I have never cheated on her before. She has cheated on me a twice before so I have this feeling she will always do it again, and on the other side I am attracted to a lot of women that are even just walking by. What does this mean please help! Am I wrong in feeling this way?
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reader, mpumie +, writes (7 June 2012):
 its okay to watch but don't think of tasting cause once u start u will never stop. As a woman I've got a feeling that u not only want to watch but to experience as much as ur saying she has cheated twice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2012): Listen, she has cheated on you twice before..what makes you think she is going to be faithful to you now? Remember - when a person SHOWS you who they are, believe them! Actions speak louder than words. I think you should break up with her. You will never trust her again. Go find an honest, trustworthy girlfriend so you don't have to live your life always wondering if your wife is sleeping around. That ain't no way to live brother.
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reader, Miss Johnson  +, writes (6 June 2012):
 No..that is completely normal for your age. As long as you are not trying to pursue any other women, you have no problem. But as far as your girlfriend cheating on you twice and you have a feeling she will do it again. Well I think it could be because you have not forgiven her or maybe she is not really making an effort to regain your trust again.
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (6 June 2012):
 It's normal to be attracted to other people. You're not doing anything wrong by being attracted to them. In fact, I'd go as far as to say you can't help it. That being said, it's not normal (or nice) to act on it when you're in a relationship. You feel she will always do it again because she has shown you that she will. I don't know what to tell you other than good luck with your relationship and you're not wrong!
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reader, Miss Johnson +, writes (6 June 2012):
No..that is completely normal for your age. As long as you are not trying to pursue any other women, you have no problem. But as far as your girlfriend cheating on you twice and you have a feeling she will do it again. Well I think it could be because you have not forgiven her or maybe she is not really making an effort to regain your trust again.
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